Op, i have no idea what youre talking about. Im a gender queer (male bodied) and i havent seen a single combat vet one uping or silencing a civilian, nor have i seen women shutting men up, unless someone is just commenting something disrespectful. As a matter of fact, i havent met a single female here trying to dismiss my trauma, even when they're unaware im transgender.
There are other forums to talk about your politics. Just go on 4chan or something. This post has nothing to do with f*cking trauma.
We all know both men ajd women, both black and white, able or disabled, have their own privileges and struggles. But nobodys getting booted or silenced for their differences or their privilege.