Guidelines For Supportive Relationships

[shimmerz]

It is no big mystery that most of us have a hard time with relationships. Boundaries are usually hard to set or set to hard for protection sake. We may feel that some are all good or all bad. I have made major changes in my relationships with family members (hardest), friends, and the many people I used to allow in my space that I shouldn't have. I have a link that a friend sent me that really resonates with what has been happening with my adjustments as I heal. I just wanted to share it in case it was of help to anyone out there. I have things I am still working on and this list is a gentle reminder. I am not ready for some of them but I am being patient with myself. :-)

http://www.marcandangel.com/2014/04/13/20-things-to-stop-letting-people-do-to-you/

 

[Mayday]

Yes, boundaries are difficult for me. It takes time but I think I'm getting there. Thanks for sharing that link.

 

[seedling]

Thanks shimmerz, I enjoyed reading that. Made me stop and think where I'm at and what those things on the list mean to me right now.