When we are in the middle of our growing and healing times, it does feel hopeless and makes us wonder what the point is.... deep down inside you know the point.... because there is a real YOU trying to surface.... and like the rest of us, we have to navigate pain to find our self.... one of the great things about the forum, and people sharing, is that it allows others to see the things worth holding on for, so we can encourge each other to hold during the bad times... it is not bad forever..... something always changes.... always.... and you are worth the work, you don't have to believe it, just keep trying.... read some success and uplifting stories here, that will give you hope....
I could not have gotten thru this past couple of weeks with out my 'family' here.... the people supporting me during the storm. The people present to hear about my flashbacks of a previous storm that I lost everything and had to start over eleven years ago..... and here I am, telling you, you are worth the work... and crying is healing.... just don't dissapear five minutes before the miracle happens..... you know I love you... or I hope you do.... and hang on... that 's all we can do some days..... you are loved and supported, and you are not alone..... you reached out, and that is you still having some hope..... love you, you can do this.... you really can.... gentle hugs to you , and lots of love and understanding....