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He asked me for my number but never texted or called me.

Elisafarese

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We met outside the club, we weren’t drunk, and we talked for two hours about serious things. At the end, he asked for my number and then went home with his friends. Why, after such 'deep' conversations, does he ask for my number but neither calls nor texts me?
 
We met outside the club, we weren’t drunk, and we talked for two hours about serious things. At the end, he asked for my number and then went home with his friends. Why, after such 'deep' conversations, does he ask for my number but neither calls nor texts me?
Loke others said,, all sorts of reasons.

Is it the seriousness of the conversation that surprises you he hasn't called? I'm wondering about having serious conversations with a stranger. Perhaps more light hearted conversations are better getting to know someone outside a nightclub? And the serious stuff saved for someone you know a bit better and know they can be a trusted with the serious stuff.
I don't think I would phone someone if I have serious conversations from the get go. But then I prob wouldn't ask for their number either if I knew I wasn't going to phone them.
 

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