Hello, I'm New Here, But I Have A Complicated Issue That I Need To Talk About For Perspectives.

[Brighid]

Hey everyone, i am not a dramatic person, ok... for starters. As this is no excuse, today has been a horrible day for me and I am NOT too proud to apologize and say when I was wrong. I was wrong and I did over-react because I felt attacked. I do see now, that I have left here and came back that I was not being attacked. Forgiveness is divine and I would like to move past this...if at all possible. Thanks again, and I apologize, sincerely.

 

[Brighid]

I get that now, like I said, I had a bad day and that doesn't excuse my actions. lol. So to any I have offended, I apologize.

Brighid, you don't need to leave Cherry Blossom didn't mean anything by it. We are all here to support each other:).

When you are ready to talk about your issues surrounding PTSD....then that is up to you.

Hugs. Heather

 

[amethist]

No worries Brighid, we all over react at times, and we do have to step away from the forum and look again at what was posted. It is better than going off in a huff, when there is really no reason to, many have done that at some point.

We are all here to support each other, whether sufferer or supporter.

Just take it slowly for a while, so as not to overload when you are already in a bad place.

Take care.

Amethist

 

[Brighid]

Thanks Amethist, and I think you were one of the ones that I scuffled with. lol Not too proud to admit being sorry. It is difficult; however, to know what is "meant" through words without the emotions behind them (hearing them). I am a good-natured person and I came here for friends and support. That is here. Thank you all for the second chance. :)

 

[anthony]

We all have bad days... welcome back and huge credit for acknowledging having a bad day. That is a great start to self improvement... self acknowledgement. We all have those days / moments...

 

[cherryblossom]

Welcome back ! I appreciate your apology. Thank you.

 

[Reclusive]

I think that you should definitely share what you're feeling with your tdoc. A lot of time, especially when our emotional world has been skewed by all this crazy stuff, we misinterpret the good feelings, too. What you're feeling may be entirely appropriate or it may not be. But it's a natural reaction. Tdocs aren't there just to help you through the bad stuff, they're there to help you learn the good stuff, too. Just recognize there are boundaries that should not be crossed.

 

[Nicolette]

It takes courage to stand up, admit you were wrong, apologize and face the music...... well done for walking away and coming back to look at things in a fresh light.

 

[AngelaMarie]

Brighid, I also agree it is great that you didn't leave and admitted you were having a difficult day. I am glad you came back.:tup:

I do not know about you, but I realized after being here a few days that I am so sensitive that I have a tendency to overreact to almost anything I feel is confrontational. I have learned through alot of complete honestly on this forum that having that trait is not healthy for me or others. It's still tough sometimes, but I stop and analyze and things become more logical for me and not only emotional.

I believe that transference happens quite a bit. You may be surprised to learn he is already aware of it. Concentrate on your recovery. Good luck!:)