I have been in a relationship for 15 years on and off. The last lets say 2 years have been on and off. This guy has ocd, add, ....I loved him to death and wanted a future with him.
We had a couple times when we were on break and did things with other people. Sorries were said and we continued to be together.
One day out of the blue, he wouldn't let me come over any more. He wouldn't leet me see his parents, he kept me away from his friends, wont add me to facebook, wont let me near his cell phone. But yet he kept calling me telling me he loved me and wanted me forever and cant live with out me.
One day I saw him and it was like a demon was in his body. It wasn't him at all. He started telling me he has life problems and he has depression and then last week he was telling me you know we havent really been together for 2 years . Then he told me he met a girl at a bar and he was ready to give me her full name . He was like she makes me laugh and I think I'm in love and I can see myself marrying her. Then 2 minutes later he is calling her a ***** and he said he liked her not loved her . Then he blames everything he does on me. Everything is my fault.
I came out and told him he was mentally abusing me and I am very sick from it. He came to my house the other day because I changed my cell phone number and email address so he had no way of contacting me. He was like to me I didn't mean anything I said to you. Then 2 minutes later he was like I said I liked her. That's all.
4 years ago I had an abortion and he now to this day tells me I owe him a child.
He says one thing and forgets he told me and he seems to be lying about everything he says. My friends say if he really loved you and wanted a future with you he would have showed it instead of just texting it.
I feel so hurt inside. I did nothing to deserve this at all. I get this is some sort of mental abuse.
There is more to the story but I don't have all day to type everything.
P.S back a few months ago I found out about a girl he claims was his friend and once when I was in his car he called me her name by accident. Then his cousin told me because I ran into her he was seeing her back in sept meanwhile telling me he wasn't and he loves me and cant live without me./ Then 2 weeks ago I ran into his brothers ex gf and she told me back in sept my ex came into her store flaunting and introduced this girl as his girlfriend . Then I confronted him about it because I was upset he was like I was just pretending to see why she broke up with my brother. Which made no sense to me. Then he I saw on facebook there was a pic of her lips and he commented hubba hubba baby but yet still denies everything.
AS OF RECENTLY I GOT A MESSAGE FROM HIM SAYING I LOVE YOU I MISS YOU YET YOU DONT MISS ME YOU DONT TEXT ME ANYMORE. SIGH. I AM COMING OVER TODAY TO GIVE YOU SOMETHING. I HAVE A GIFT FOR YOU.
Then the abuse thing I told you about happened last Friday . What happened was I showed up at his house he shut all the lights off brought me to his room where he was going to tie me up and try to have a kid with me then I pushed him off and he called me that melissas girl name again and said he confuses us because we are both mels and she frustrates him too and then he went to almost every window in his house like he was paranoid someone was coming.. I left. As I was pulling off driveway he ran to me and accused me of taking his cell/ then he started to fake cry saying he loves me and he wants me no one else. Then I said no, I want nothing to do with you he was like can we be pen pals...and I drove away. Then he text me Monday saying he was coming Wednesday and he called me wed at 2am I didn't answer. I'm not answering his calls or texts just ignoring him.
We had a couple times when we were on break and did things with other people. Sorries were said and we continued to be together.
One day out of the blue, he wouldn't let me come over any more. He wouldn't leet me see his parents, he kept me away from his friends, wont add me to facebook, wont let me near his cell phone. But yet he kept calling me telling me he loved me and wanted me forever and cant live with out me.
One day I saw him and it was like a demon was in his body. It wasn't him at all. He started telling me he has life problems and he has depression and then last week he was telling me you know we havent really been together for 2 years . Then he told me he met a girl at a bar and he was ready to give me her full name . He was like she makes me laugh and I think I'm in love and I can see myself marrying her. Then 2 minutes later he is calling her a ***** and he said he liked her not loved her . Then he blames everything he does on me. Everything is my fault.
I came out and told him he was mentally abusing me and I am very sick from it. He came to my house the other day because I changed my cell phone number and email address so he had no way of contacting me. He was like to me I didn't mean anything I said to you. Then 2 minutes later he was like I said I liked her. That's all.
4 years ago I had an abortion and he now to this day tells me I owe him a child.
He says one thing and forgets he told me and he seems to be lying about everything he says. My friends say if he really loved you and wanted a future with you he would have showed it instead of just texting it.
I feel so hurt inside. I did nothing to deserve this at all. I get this is some sort of mental abuse.
There is more to the story but I don't have all day to type everything.
P.S back a few months ago I found out about a girl he claims was his friend and once when I was in his car he called me her name by accident. Then his cousin told me because I ran into her he was seeing her back in sept meanwhile telling me he wasn't and he loves me and cant live without me./ Then 2 weeks ago I ran into his brothers ex gf and she told me back in sept my ex came into her store flaunting and introduced this girl as his girlfriend . Then I confronted him about it because I was upset he was like I was just pretending to see why she broke up with my brother. Which made no sense to me. Then he I saw on facebook there was a pic of her lips and he commented hubba hubba baby but yet still denies everything.
AS OF RECENTLY I GOT A MESSAGE FROM HIM SAYING I LOVE YOU I MISS YOU YET YOU DONT MISS ME YOU DONT TEXT ME ANYMORE. SIGH. I AM COMING OVER TODAY TO GIVE YOU SOMETHING. I HAVE A GIFT FOR YOU.
Then the abuse thing I told you about happened last Friday . What happened was I showed up at his house he shut all the lights off brought me to his room where he was going to tie me up and try to have a kid with me then I pushed him off and he called me that melissas girl name again and said he confuses us because we are both mels and she frustrates him too and then he went to almost every window in his house like he was paranoid someone was coming.. I left. As I was pulling off driveway he ran to me and accused me of taking his cell/ then he started to fake cry saying he loves me and he wants me no one else. Then I said no, I want nothing to do with you he was like can we be pen pals...and I drove away. Then he text me Monday saying he was coming Wednesday and he called me wed at 2am I didn't answer. I'm not answering his calls or texts just ignoring him.
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