Sufferer Hi, I've Endured Rape,violence And Molestation

[Jayster]

Apparently I was raped beaten and molested as a small child into my pre-teens.

I'm in counselling and on meds. Which for me is a slow process. But at least I'm getting help. Glad to be here.

 

[Loveneverfails]

Welcome Jayster! I hope you find the support you need and deserve. I'm sorry for what brought you here, but glad you found us.

 

[Jayster]

Loveneverfails, thank you very much. I hope to God I get something out of this.

My sister's not on this site but is a sufferer and gave me the idea. Thanks for the welcome as well. Jayster.

 

[bombilla]

I wish you all the best. Nobody deserves this :(

 

[Jayster]

I wish you all the best. Nobody deserves this :(

No we don't. Unfortunately the perpetrators probably lived in a different time.

I had to forgive him (My Dad) so I could move on. It's critical to do this in my opinion.

How I did it was I thought of what horrid things he must have endured to make him that sick???? He didn't really have the luxury of counselling etc back then. But it was TABOO to open your mouth back then as well.

Thanks very much for the well wishes......Jayster..:)

 

[Pinkcake]

I'm sorry for what happened to you.

Forgiveness is hard. People say that forgiveness is for YOU and not the other person. That forgiving doesn't mean you have to allow that person back into your life or that you have to forget what they did. Its hard to forgive and not feel like we are letting someone off the hook for their behavior. I'm glad you were able to achieve that. Its a work in progress for me and it takes much courage to be able to do it.

 

[intothelight]

Hi and welcome to the PTSD Forum! :)

There is a sister forum called: MySexAbuse.org

I hope you find both sites helpful as you work on healing.

 

[Jenny0329]

Hi,
welcome to the forum.

 

[KP the nut]

Hi and welcome to the forum.

 

[Jayster]

Thank you all.

I need to be here. I'm very glad to be here and hopefully this will help me feel like I'm not so an alone. It's nerve wracking. Thanks, Jayster