I am unsure exactly how new members continue to miss reading [DLMURL]https://www.ptsdforum.org/c/help/new-member[/DLMURL] which is plastered in front of their face in various locations and covers the exact points J'aime has gone on a rampage about.
READ the information before posting, so members avoid having such little outbursts, issues and tantrums with forum staff. You will lose, as that document states. Approach staff with rational conversation, it goes a lot further.