Relationship How To End It Without Hurting Him

[Tinyflame]

Moving in is very different. Like the T said, let him get to therapy too. Ultimtely for now anyway, there is no cure. Just management.

He might have insomnia or trouble sleeping. Not meaning he doesn't want to talk to you, just that sleep might be problematic. That's not so good if the other person is trying to sleep. (Kind of stuff. )

 

[Mytime]

Is he in therapy? If yes how long?

 

[Mytime]

Just wanted to add. Moving in can be a big stresser. If he isn't in therapy and working his PTSD, good stress and bad stress adds to the stress cup. :)

 

[Tinyflame]

Yes I often thought (feared) if I ever married I'd never make it to my own wedding. But the reality would have been I probably would have called it off. Unfortunately, I'm actually serious. :tdown: :sorry:

 

[Tinyflame]

Thinking about it @Kimani , you asked what is our/ my concept of love but not if it exists. I'd say no. Or right up there with rainbows, glittering unicorns & 'caring family' lol. It's all just words.

I think you said somewhere else you are FWB. And we all know the 3 date rule. And that's for the 'Old fashioned' ones. I think Tina Turner was right. ;)

 

[Alistair]

I am a sufferer and my wife ended it with me after 8 years.

She just told me in the same conversation we were having about selling the house.

We are finally selling the house and living apart now.

We still spend evenings together and had a garage sale together today.

Deep feelings are just that.

If you want to not have the relationship then stop. It's your right in a free land. He can handle it.

If you are uncertain, then give yourself time.

Love endures.