Hi Ayesha,
Wow thats a tough question. I would say that if you have had a few before, there are issues that you have run up against that you would not have thought about before having a psychiatrist.
Personally, I would ask how long appointments are? Are they scheduled for 15 minutes, or 30 minutes. (that is because I only had one and he seemed to have 5 minute appt. slots.) My daughter had the most wonderful child psychiatrist in her teens and suspected ADHD and discovered a auditory processing problem. He appointments were a full 30 minutes, maybe the first was an hour, but she did not rush and she conversed.
Where I live and with insurance, they assign a psychiatrist to you if you end up in crisis. You are NEVER allowed to change psychiatrists. I got the short straw. He never even asked about SI but wrote that there was no SI in my chart. He would say-how are things going or how is your sleep-he did not seem to even be present, then in about 3 or 4 minutes after staring blankly at me, he would write a script and tell me to come back in a month. There was no questioning his reason for the meds or in my case, I thought one was making me feel worse.
I got to see a different one once when he was on vacation. He actually listened to my environment situation (not getting on with divorce) and said that I need to get closure to this and that my emotions are stuck in limbo and feel controlled. I could just tell that he connected, understood my feeling stuck, and assured me that life would be better after even if I have less money and a some unknowns. He was wonderful but I was not allowed to see him again. So for me, I would definately chose him after a 10 minute conversation, that is based a lot on gut feeling and his ability to inquire about what is going on in your life.
I would want to know if the psychiatrist allows patient to share in decisions of medication. (Im not resistant, but mine didnt listed when I told him it was wrong for me-would not change it). I would ask if he works/communicates with therapist if/when there is any problems, crisis, or medication issues.
This may be of no help but are just the little that I have experienced.