How To Plan/invite People To Things?

[Leisel]

I've NEVER planned a party or any kind of event for myself before but I am now and I have these people I want to invite but I don't know, I'm so anxious, and I want it to be perfect, and I've gone back and forth and for the people who I've already invited, I've either given them practically no info or gone back and forth on it and I don't know what to do, I feel like I'm being ridiculously annoying and they're going to stop liking me because of this when I just want to have a nice day and spend time with people??

 

[Kintsugi]

1) Plan what you want to do
2) Ask your friends about their interest level and availability
3) Tailor plans
4) Invite friends

I'm terrible at this stuff, too.

 

[Keming]

If you're afraid that you aren't explaining anything, then write the description down and read it.
Try to explain what your gathering is, in only three words.

Example: a [formal] [four-course] [dinner]
Example: [gaming] with [beer] and [homemade pizza]

If it's more complicated than that, you may want to consider simplifying. Simple-happy is more fun than complicated-stressful.