I Am Being Manipulated By A Sociopath Friend For Years, I Need Opinions, Urgent.

[Ronin]

I wish I had better upbringing, unleash I would spot these behaviors unconsciously

Added to: Being able to spot things still doesn't guarantee you'd be in a position to defend yourself against them. Just because you're able to spot a predator doesn't mean you won't fall prey to their shenanigans, and neither of that is on you, or your fault.

 

[Argo32]

You are right @Ronin In the name of self-protection I have to consider doing it.

This new awareness has really impacted, right now I cannot concentrate on the things I am doing, i just can't, seriously I feel weak right now, hurt, idiot, angry, fearful that something bad might happen, wondering if i ever met "healthy" mindided people without dark intents.


with precise this person will try to contact me couple of hours expressing something "irrelevant", my instinct tells me GTFO of the situations asap

 

[Argo32]

Also, he has created a scheme of peope in which he is constantly lying

i am not sure if i may be physical in danger or other danger as an revenge, he is constantly reading law and other stuff, what processions can I take?

Also, how I can gain trust to humanity again?

 

[Freedomfighter]

Hello, I am new to the forum and I want to share this story that has been hurting me.

All my life I hav...

Well, correct me if I am wrong, you are merely searching for good people to communicate with and you are wondering if its worth your time to continue to communicate with this person that you described?

Our society is chock full of sociopaths and we have to be extremely careful when communicating with others. I only communicate in ways in which I can steer into the direction that is most useful to me. Anyone that attempts to steer communication into a way that has absolutely no value to me I will steer clear of.

You are explaining a very familiar scene: people who seem to be nice and later you recognize they are monsters.

I have the most fun and interesting communications in this forum. I would not communicate this way if there were people on the outside world who have any kind of similarities with humans. I know, I know it sounds weird.

 

[nomorechickenlittle]

Hello, I am new to the forum and I want to share this story that has been hurting me.

All my life I hav...

If you are not pleased with their behavior it is up to you to walk away. I would not associate with anyone who lied to me.

 

[talon]

Hello, I am new to the forum and I want to share this story that has been hurting me.

All my life I hav...

Block him take back control you can never be too careful and if he makes you feel threatened report him. don't delay

 

[Argo32]

I agree @ Freedomfighter, I definitely I should find good people, I should first learn to identify them though, as you I have met a lot of "nice" people turn out monsters, I should be really careful this time.

https://www.myptsd.com/members/nomorechickenlittle.14995/
@ROBERT TALON I know what you are saying, Obsessed manipulating me, he can do anything I guess, he is seriously sick, although he has mentioned he is seeing a therapist for years, i don't know if he is lying o he gets the methods from the therapist

Update:

Went to a restaurant with this person, applied defusing techniques, he was tough on many things, just in a couple of hours I broke the "rules", also stopped the shamming on topics and actions in the past months he wanted to stop thinking and doing. For the first time of my life I felt I got my self-esteem back, I still get messages from him online.


I see that he is becoming creepier and creepier he mentions movies about false accusations, "NSA spy lists", movies mentioning dangerous sociopaths. Says stories about calling public sector services and manipulating "officials" to get what he wants. I don't know if this is doing that to elicit a subtle threat

 

[Beks]

I would like to thank all of you, for taking the time and replying on my thread, it really makes me smi...

Hi Argo32,
I empathise with you here; one of my abusers was a well practised sociopath who did similar things to what you describe (said he deliberately learned how to manipulate and hurt people, admitting why he did this and that to me) and also made recordings, manipulated others to think against me and all sorts. He did this as an insurance should I tell anyone and to torture me a bit more than he already was. I still have no idea if he (or anyone else dodgy iv come across for that matter) 'shared' anything with others, and I just have to accept that if he did, there is nothing I can do about it and I just have to trust that if so then anyone judging me has no clue anyway.

In the end, as hard as it is, the only way to end the torture a sociopath relishes on is to completely stop all contact with them - and anyone who disagrees will just have to live with that decision as it is your life and not theirs.