Relationship I Need Some Insight

[Darkfirefly]

How do you know if the person with PTSD is pushing you away because of the PTSD?
Or isolating?

The person I know who has this has stopped replying to my texts. He came on really strong then he pulled way back.
I'm supposed to visit him in another state but am confused as to whether we're still on for that set date. What should I do?

Im all for giving someone space. I don't push hard. But I'm still very confused. This isn't the first time I've dealt with someone with PTSD. People tend to feel comfortable with me so they come back usually.

I just feel worried that he may cancel the trip because of the lack of communication. I already have my ticket.

What are your thoughts?

 

[joeylittle]

How long have you been in a relationship?

 

[Darkfirefly]

It's more of a friendship

 

[Sweetpea76]

You can't really know if he isn't responding because of PTSD or some other reason.

Is this the first time he's done this?

 

[Darkfirefly]

You can't really know if he isn't responding because of PTSD or some other reason.

Is this the fir...

He has done this before. But always comes back. He got really jealous when I got into a relationship with someone else a while back. That relationship only lasted a short while. Why would he get jealous when he treats picks me up and drops me whenever he pleases? He did say he hates texting. So not sure if he's not texting because of that.

 

[joeylittle]

It's more of a friendship

He got really jealous when I got into a relationship with someone else a while back.

Already sounds really messy. Where do you want this relationship/friendship to go?