I Want To Die Because I Can't Find A Girlfriend That Wants To Date Me.

[ihateusernames]

Your best bet, (if you are serious), is to find another straight girl like yourself who has a boyfriend and wants the same thing. There are TONS of ads like yours on Craigslist and they are even on Okcupid these days.

Take this advice. I personally know 2 couples currently on Plentyoffish looking for a female play toy, so to speak, for the wife. I'm sure they have ads on other sites and I'm sure there are many, many others out there. A girl I went to high school with is happily married to a man, but only has sex with women. I can't imagine how that's okay with her husband, but it seems to be. I also have accidentally come across a housewife in Atlanta looking for the same thing. I don't even know how I met her, but I found out later that this is what she was after. There are all sorts out there and I would be an absolute hypocrite to judge you for wanting this, but I think you are going about it in the wrong manner.

There is little incentive for a single lesbian to want to enter into a relationship like this. She would get next to nothing out of it when she could be focusing on a potential committed partner. Not to mention it would be unfair. As much as we all like to pretend that we can separate sex from emotions, bringing a single person of either sex in usually gets them hurt.

 

[GWhizz]

How will meeting a woman who wants to be with you make you not feel ugly or like killing yourself? You already have a fiancé - doesn't he make you feel pretty and want to live?

Again, I didn't want to reply either but I agree with above posts - you need regular therapy to deal with you underlying issues. Happiness comes from within.

 

[Kristina25]

Having an open relationship is fine, but you have admitted to having had an extra-relationship already without your Fiancee's knowledge with a Facebook friend that did not work out.

I would suggest that if you are looking for an out of monogamy relationship with either a male or a female partner (gender irrelevant) that your current relationship needs either some serious work or you need to be thinking about ending the current one rather than looking to start another relationship outside of in this manner.

Actually my Fiance knew about my girlfriend on Facebook.

Me and my Fiance are already in the process of getting couples counseling somewhere with the help of my Psych Clinic.

 

[Kristina25]

@anthony

Actually. I want to love someone else (a woman) just as much as I love my Fiance and if she wanted to I would have no problem with her coming and living with us.

 

[Kristina25]

You seriously think someone would dive into a relationship with you considering you have a fiancé? It's fine to consider your alliance with women. Who cares if you want to be bisexual, but not simultaneously.

I have every right to have a Fiance and a girlfriend and eventually a husband and a girlfriend. What is wrong with that? I can love them both the same.

 

[Kristina25]

Are you bisexual? gay? are you even attracted to women? Or are you just looking for someone to validate that you're not ugly or that your "mental illness" is not an issue? Do you even see how you are viewing your potential "partner" - as an object to fulfill your curiosity - is wrong?

Seriously, you want to date a woman - just to see what it's like? When you say date - are you talking sex? If so, go to a bar or get on Craigslist and find someone to hook up with. If you're looking to date someone - well, there may be someone out there that's willing to do this, but personally, I wouldn't date someone just because they wanted to "see what it's like".

I may have worded that wrong. I do not want to see what it's like to date a woman. I know what it's like to date a woman without the sex. I liked the feelings I got when I was dating my girlfriend that I recently broke up with on Facebook. I do not want it just for sex. I am actually very attracted to women and I want a girlfriend so I can be with both a man and a woman. I am indeed bisexual. I have made out with a girl before and I loved it. So yes, I am definitely bisexual without a doubt.

 

[Kristina25]

@Recovery4Me

No actually he's not allowed to be with another girl. Only with the same sex as him and he's not bisexual like me so he only gets me.

 

[Tanishq]

@Kristina25 I don't think this site is right place for you. It is like you are talking whatever comes in your mind or you are out of your mind.

 

[Kristina25]

as a full blown lesbian here, can i tell you that we avoid women like you?

It's really not about your personality or looks etc. Think about our perspective. I will attempt to answer you seriously without getting my own buttons pushed...

Do you want your own pet lesbian to pine over you while you remain at a distance with your man? Because most of us have been there, done that. It is very selfish and please leave us out of it.

Or, are you just looking for a hook-up? There's plenty of ways to make that happen. Good luck on your journey and keep it safe

I am not a lesbian I am bisexual. And I do not want to pine over a lesbian I want someone who is bisexual like me and I do not want to remain at a distance with my man. I want to love them both equally.

 

[Kristina25]

@Changeling

I am ready to commit to a relationship. I like men more then women but I also want to be with a woman.

 

[Queen Boudica]

And you want to be a man as well. Do you read what you write?

 

[Kristina25]

@Kaia

What's wrong with wanting to have a Fiance and a Girlfriend? And I don't want a girlfriend to fulfill my needs. I want a girlfriend because I am attracted to women and want to give a woman my love.