I Want To Die Because I Can't Find A Girlfriend That Wants To Date Me.

[Queen Boudica]

Personally I think this is all about attention seeking rubbish.

 

[Tanishq]

I have every right to have a Fiance and a girlfriend and eventually a husband and a girlfriend. What is wrong with that?

What is wrong with this? Well you are going to make mockery of marriage, aren't you? That's very wrong on many levels if you ask me.

 

[Kristina25]

There is little incentive for a single lesbian to want to enter into a relationship like this. She would get next to nothing out of it when she could be focusing on a potential committed partner. Not to mention it would be unfair. As much as we all like to pretend that we can separate sex from emotions, bringing a single person of either sex in usually gets them hurt.

First off, I don't want to date a lesbian. And if I do find a bisexual woman to date I would be committed to them. Why do you assume I wouldn't be? I want to have sexual and regular emotional feelings for them too. I do not just want a girl to mess around with sexually.

 

[Kristina25]

And you want to be a man as well. Do you read what you write?

What? I never said I want to be a man.

 

[Queen Boudica]

Do you even understand what regular emotional feelings are? Because from what you have written previously on here, you need to get your emotions sorted before you enter into any relationship. talk of being suicidal, homicidal rage. GET REAL

 

[Kristina25]

What is wrong with this? Well you are going to make mockery of marriage, aren't you? That's very wrong on many levels if you ask me.

I'm not trying to make a mockery of marriage at all.

 

[Tanishq]

@Kristina25 you marry your partner and then still you go for another partner, then what's the point of marrying?

I remember months ago you created threads and we reached to a point where you were having tough time to understand marriage. Now I get why people are asking you to sort out your emotions.

 

[Neverthesame]

What on earth?

So, let me get this straight. You have a fiancé (male). You also want a girlfriend (female but not a lesbian). Because you are (bisexual, not a lesbian). For the purpose of entering a one way sexual (you & fiancé), other way (pseudo-sexual?) Relationship?

A relationship where you can have anyone you want, whenever you want. But, your fiancé must only have you? (unless he wants to have someone of the same sex? Are they allowed to be gay, or does he have to locate a non-gay man, that wants to have sex with other men?)

I am so bloody confused. Have I gotten this correct?

 

[Queen Boudica]

In fact I'm going to write it because I'm angry now. How dare you come on here and start making glib statements like you are feeling like you want to die because you can't date a woman. How dare you take suicide in such a glib manner. There are those of us on here who have actually had members of our family die of suicide and you know what have had real suicide thoughts. Reading your post just makes me mad.

 

[Neverthesame]

@Lizio Agreed. Enough is enough. Suicide is not a joke, nor something one does on a whim. If you feel this way @Kristina25. Get help. Seriously.

If not, shame on you for using a place where people come to seek support for very real, serious, and unbearably painful things they have had to endure. As your dramatic "soap box".

Get Help! This is my advice to you.

 

[GWhizz]

Actually. I want to love someone else (a woman) just as much as I love my Fiance and if she wanted to I would have no problem with her coming and living with us.

You can't want to love someone. It either happens naturally or it doesn't. You can't just pick any old woman and expect it to work. You don't seem to be thinking this through rationally.

Actually you're being a spoiled brat - you want to stamp your feet, click your fingers to get a 2nd lover. Don't use threatened suicide to get your own way - it's the lowest sickest thing I've ever seen. I am not proud of my suicide attempts but I was trying to escape a living hell. I've also lost loved ones to suicide. Have you even considered your fiancée in all of this? Does he know you're thinking this way or is he this emotionally unstable too?

 

[KwanYingirl]

Can we just end this thread please. It has nothing to do with PTSD.