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Yeah, if I take a big dose of etomidate I'm sure I wouldn't have any symptoms of PTSD! But that's probably because I'll be knocked out :p. Every psychological disorder is affected by drugs, because every psychological disorder is rooted in the brain, and drugs affect the brain. But that's like saying just because depression can be helped with SSRIs, someone shouldn't go see a psych to get help with their depression. That's like saying because depression can be helped with SSRIs, it's not a psychological disorder.

But it is, and you still need both physiological (medicine) and psychological (therapy) assistance in order to fully treat depression. The same is true of PTSD. Psychological disorders have two components: The psychological aspect, the perceptual aspect, and the physical aspect. Depression is physically an issue with the serotonin levels in your brain. Lack of serotonin, lack of happiness, ergo, depression.

But you wouldn't tell a depressed person to just snort some heroin and they'll suddenly be fixed cause their serotonin will be boosted. A person with depression still has to go to therapy in order to better be able to conceptualize of their life, their perceptions about what is happening, their emotional reactions, their choices, their actions, their faulty coping mechanisms (Drugs, for starters. Gambling, avoidance, distraction, self-harming, reckless behavior, etc. They're all shitty coping mechanisms), etc.

I think we can all agree that the level of treatment for PTSD at this point is primitive, and that most people with PTSD deal with it on a lifetime basis. I think most people agree they'd love a catch all cure, but aside from snorting some heroin, it just isn't gonna happen. So people work with what they have. Being open to new ideas is paramount, definitely, and you have some good points. But you keep obscuring those points with invalidating and condescending and assuming responses regarding the nature of other people's diagnoses, and that is where you are getting the flak.

You can't put down an entire regime of treatment just because you think it's stupid. I think EFT is stupid, but if I see someone who is getting helped by EFT, I'm not gonna put it down and say it's a shitty cure and it doesn't work and that means they don't have PTSD. Does that make sense?

There's another thread on here that talks about the Chicago Block, the SGB treatment, which is an interesting addition to your claim that PTSD is an entirely organic response. In my opinion, PTSD is a disorder whereby the brain does not realize it is not being traumatized any longer, and reacts to external and unrelated triggers as though it is being traumatized again. Hence, the fear response.

The fear response is a natural response, and it is working correctly (When something traumatic happens, fear is generally the accepted response) - but, it isn't working in the right situation, it's out of context. SGB seems to inhibit the sudden trigger response, which helps a lot of people. But, as you notice on the board, and with Anthony's responses to the board as well, SGB is not a cure for PTSD.

It treats the physical aspect, but there is still a whole psychological component to the disorder that still needs to be addressed despite this. So it's a multidimensional issue.
 
Startle response since I broke. A door clicking. Someone calling my name when its quiet. A motorbike starting up. ANYTHING that 'gets my attention' but is amplified and NONE of those things have to do with trauma.........but being in a high state of alert.....its a biological response. And biological responses are in born to PROTECT us in dangerous situations.

I'm thinking this is why its so common in the military. They are IN real tangible dangerous situations from which they cannot escape. The biology stays on high alert.

If I move from one country to another (and I mean a very very different culture) then all my L:EARNED (aka subconscious) actions and reactions dont work there. I have to mentally make them turn off, and STOP presuming and acting automatically, or I am going to walk out in front of a truck and end up spreading axle grease on my toast.

Its hard! But you have to live like a child for a while, asking everything, checking everything, thinking about every tiny thing you do. Things that would be 'auto' at home.

To me this is the same. I'm having to live with nothing on auto and THINK about everything, and relearn. But I relearned in other countries over time, and things gradually became 'auto'. And this will be the same.
 
This thread is an EXCELLENT example of gaslighting, in my opinion.

A person begins a thread by asking permission to deviate from adherance to the established rules of the forum (can't do english), lowering expectations of him and taking advantage of our desire to 'help', thus putting us in a less guarded frame of mind.

Then, proceeds to write posts that are just enough on the line that we keep thinking we've misunderstood.

Then, he keeps pushing the line further into unacceptable behavior, all the while claiming victimhood for being 'misunderstood' while continuing to further exploit our known vulnerability, i.e., that we are on here because we have/need help with PTSD.

...and he continues to attack every person's response by telling them how they should or should not have felt (a telling sign right there!) about his previous response.

Causing more and more bad feelings, causing more to respond, giving him more responses to attack.

Until some of our dear members are literally defending the very diagnosis that brings us all here!

Gaslighting!

The good thing is, I don't have to know motives (or care, once I find behavior unacceptable).

i can choose to just stop giving him fuel. Ignoring a gaslighter, giving them no further fuel, and getting away from them is a crucial behavior in my psychological safety.

I'm glad to know I can trust my feelings. If I spend more than 2 minutes trying to figure out if I should orI shouldn't be upset by a post/comment/should, I switch my mind to 'that upset me. Is this person's behavior invited? Helpful? Healing? Supporting?'

In this thread, I say...nope.

So, time for me to turn off the fuel line. The flames will go out....at least in my own inner self.

This has been a Great example of how I can handle things like this in real life, too. :)
 
((BloomInWinter))

I respect that your opinion is different, and I am glad you felt you could express that here :)

You dont agree and said you dont agree. WOOT! :) :) :)

What I do not accept is expecting others to follow your own line of thinking though and act on your instructions. I feel thats an unrealistic expectations and might even play on some peoples vulnerabilities and ther need (through fear and conditioning) to act up to someone else's expectations.

I'm SO GLAD you voiced your disagreement :) ((HUG)) And felt you could. But I hope everyone else feels they too can say how they themselves actually feel, without fear of an expected response.
 
(((((Jacquie))))

Always....and am so glad for your response as well. All good points! I amended my post and apologize for using group pronouns. I gotta watch that. Thanks for the challenge...it's good for me to be accountable. :)

My opinions on anything are just my opinions...and are of course worth no more than anyone elses....and in many cases, far less!!! :P

A 12 Step saying, 'take what you like, leave the rest' is a pretty good policy when dealing with opinions, I've found. If something feels ok for me, I try it on. If not, I try to let it go.

This is a social skill that the coming generation will need, I think, as much as they will need keyboarding skills.

Wish I had learned this at at much earlier age...
 
I disagree. Your own opinions ARE just as valid and important as anyone elses. And if we accept that holds true for every person, then we stop being afraid to voice, what is after all, how we see it for ourselves. It doesnt mean its right or wrong or valid or not valid. Its a way of sharing with other people 'how we see it' from where we are standing and through our own experiences.

It also helps to see others saying things....is their own opinion/belief voiced through the eyes of THEIR own experiences.

When people can do that.....it allows others to 'see them'. We stop being 'invisible' to others.....or worse...a reflection of what someone else expects us to look like, because thats not real. Its like living inside a lie and it eats at us like a slow growing cancer.

Say it as you see it (honestly) and peoples reactions to what you say.......is the echo. Listen to the echo. They are showing YOU what and who they are. But see it only as an echo, not an expectation that you be what they expect. If they expect you to be the same, understand THEY have a need for sameness and THEY are fearful of different things. Its not about you.

Shine ;) And you will find the people who love who you really are when you shine. Those who would rather put out your light, will fade away all by themselves (while firing in your general direction but they'll go anyway)

Theres an old saying (yeah Im old). DARE TO LOSE.....or you'll never win. But so often we get tangled up in being afraid of what we will lose.

Little steps. Fall off the darn bike. Get up and try again, until with wobbling wheels and quaking knees I get life back in motion again. But that takes me being prepared to fail, screw up, fall down, cry, get frustrated, fix skun knees, deal with embarassment. And if anyone wants to use that as an excuse to belittle me......their problem. If I choose to stop trying and falling down I am never going to be able to ride away from them. And next they'll probably start picking on how I walk as well. THEIR way of living. Not mine.

God I talk too much. Need to go DO some stuff.
 
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