Sexual Assault I Was Ten?

[plasticpeach]

i was molested by my father when i was 10 several times, he always thought i was asleep and i feel like i should be grateful for that because he didnt want me to know he was hurting me. but i cant i hate myself and i hate him, ive told my mum recently so i never have to see him again but i still i cant cope i dont want to live with the meories

 

[BlueOrange]

I see no rational reason to be grateful to someone who committed a crime against your body and soul, just because it's possible to imagine a worse crime. I can see an emotional reason to look for something positive to think and feel and say about your father. We all want to believe that our parents are good.

Talking about your experience in the right company will help. Finding a good therapist is well worth the effort.

Welcome to the forum - I'm glad you found this place, and I'm angry and disappointed that you had a reason to look for it.

 

[Lucycat]

Hi @plasticpeach I too was abused by my father, for me it was 7 to 14 years of age. It was a long time before I told anyone, but not having to see him any more is a good thing. I have been having therapy to help with the memories. It really does make a difference.

 

[claire east]

i was molested by my father when i was 10 several times, he always thought i was asleep and i feel...

I too was raped at the age of 11 by make and female it lasted two years everyday you never get over it you just learn to cope with it

 

[ghotiff]

I see no rational reason to be grateful to someone who committed a crime against your body and soul, just because it's possible to imagine a worse crime.

This!!!!!