Incapable Of Reaching Orgasm From Sex

[Deleted member 28403]

Well, how about being a bit pickier, having a bit more getting to know someone before you end up in a relationship?

 

[EveHarrington]

It's kind of complicated. They're not really "relationships" in the official sense of the word. I'm that chica that nobody can pin down. I don't seek but when I am sought after I never really commit. Yeah, I'm THAT afraid of people. But yeah, you're right. I do need to be pickier. I'm alone much of the time so I fear if I am even slightly picky that I'll be totally isolated outside of the few family members I talk to.

 

[Deleted member 28403]

Hmm, another problem might be that because you do not feel a sense of a lasting relationship emerging, there si not much effort on the other end..

 

[EveHarrington]

Yeah you're probably right, it is my fault. Just stuck and don't know how to fix anything.

 

[Deleted member 28403]

What do you think of the idea to sorta make it at least seem like you want a lasting relationship in every relationship, it might just take that to get it running :hug:

 

[EveHarrington]

I do want lasting relationships. I don't know how to get that across without seeming pathetic, needy, and clingy. I also have mega issues with self worth so the flip side is that I don't think people want to get to know me anyway. It's why I let people use me. I don't know how to form relationships. I never actually acquired that skill.

 

[Deleted member 28403]

You wont be seeming pathethic, needy or clingy, you will rather be seeming warm and serious. Hmmm, I dont know how to form relationships either, they just happen, just go with the flow once it gets serious

 

[EveHarrington]

I'm not so sure.

 

[Deleted member 28403]

Hmm, sorta worked for me, you know, people don't wanna push something on you if it doesn't seem like you want it, at least normal people, and like, they will have trouble detecting you want a serious relationship if you dont show much sign you want it

 

[EveHarrington]

I should probably just avoid relationships at this point.

 

[Deleted member 28403]

Hmm, well, depends if you want them. Relationships are a double edged sword, they can helpn but they can also make stuff harder

 

[EveHarrington]

I think most people want relationships but when you have nothing positive to bring to the table it's kind of game over until you fix yourself.