I've Been Kidnapped And Put On A Cruise Ship!

[Whitneys story]

Hela, the important part is you have each other and that is all that matters. We adjust the sails. The rest will fall in place.

Excuse my French but skew the family that thinks they have a say in this. :)

 

[Nicolette]

Congratulations again! :D

Wow, nothing like everything happening at once! 22 years ago I was told it was very unlikely I would ever conceive and we had discussed adoption as being something in the future. Woke up one morning and thought "I'm pregnant" - my finance was in shock and said no way. I was pregnant and due the day after we had planned to get married. I imagined walking down the aisle and going "ooh, I need a doctor". :oops: Scaled back the wedding and got married sooner.

Good luck with the plans. I would tend to re-think plans as as wedding is just one day and can still be memorable where bubs is forever. I'm too practically minded though.

 

[StarChild]

Any mothers out there who can offer advice or support?

Hi Bubzilla! What kind of advice or support would you need, respectively are you asking for?...

 

[HëllaBubz]

I would tend to re-think plans as as wedding is just one day and can still be memorable where bubs is forever. I'm too practically minded though.

Well, I guess it's kind of good that I've roughly estimated the wedding to be at least 2 years from now, even before I knew!

I'm in a serious state of shock though! Although there was a split second where I (in my head) started bouncing around and yelling, "I finally get to have and give a baby to him!"

I guess my next concerned is now what medication to move to because Pristiq is REALLY not recommended for pregnancy.

As for advice, I'm not sure.....like what the bloody hell do I do now???

I've gone and found a 'basics' list for things I'll need, and started looking on ebay so that way we won't get slugged with the price of everything at once!

I found a midwife a while ago who had experience with dealing with sexually abused women, so I'll go contact her, and also start looking at all the supplements I need to get on - stat!

I will still go ahead with my diet, it's not bad for bubs, and it will help not to be too overweight when I finally do give birth.

Oh boy oh boy........now I've REALLY gone and done it GOOD!

 

[HëllaBubz]

I should really avoid giving myself too many birthday presents like this.....the shock is just NOT good for the system!

 

[ms spock]

Wow how exciting! Congratulations!

 

[DharmaGirl]

How wonderful! Happy Birthday! So much to celebrate! Wow! I am so happy for you!

 

[Britt.f7]

Congratulations! A baby is definitely a gift. There is a good book out there "What to expect when you are expecting" and there is even one for men. ;) They have a series. Some doctor's offices give them out in gift packages.

I wish Rhett and you the best! Now we get to hear how two stories are going. Yippee. So exciting! :)

 

[HëllaBubz]

Hey Guys!

I'm still in a bit of a state of shock, however I'm kind of looking forward to making a nursery and rearranging our house.

It's probably a good thing because it means we will whittle down even more crap floating around the house and storage.

Thank goodness I planned the wedding for about 2 years from now......

The oven will go 'ding' around the second week of December.

I actually took another pregnancy test this morning.....just in case it was all a dream.......nope, life has imitated art yet again!

I'm not really stressed about the whole thing, I just want to make sure I'll keep it under wraps for as long as possible.....if possible I would like to announce our son/daughter at our engagement party.....now THAT will be fun to see the reaction!

Now to find a way to afford the engagement party, there are SO many people to invite!

 

[Tanishq]

Bubzilla, I had two different weddings(married twice).

Bubzilla, don't you think Britt should marry again for third time and invite us all? ;)

and also to Bubzilla, I am slowly checking your news. It seems lots of work is going on. I hope you invite us including me. :)

 

[HëllaBubz]

Hi Jaret! Long time no hear mischief!

Yes, many things are going on, I have had an EXTREMELY shocking March...... I honestly don't think I can handle much more shock!

If any of you are willing to come, then I will most certainly include whoever wishes to come to the wedding, I would LOVE having any of you there!

Although it's going to be interesting to try to save for the wedding whilst having a little one!

 

[amethist]

Congratulations.

Your secret is safe with me.