Relationship Just Checking In

[Glara]

Haven't posted in a while, don't have much to say. My guy isn't responding to my texts. Part of me takes it personally, and part of me knows he's still in a dark place. He barely posts on Facebook, which is the only way I know he's alive. I've only texted him 3x in 2 weeks, to let him know I'm here. He hasn't responded to the last 2.

I'm trying to live my life like it's over. I'm not sure that he'll come back. Even if he does, I know it's never going to be they way I thought, they way we planned.

I'm depressed, it doesn't help that it's winter. I'm hoping as the the days get longer I can get outside more. I get depressed in the winter under the best circumstances, so this makes it do much worse.

Anyway, that's what's going on here. I had a PM from someone who was concerned that I haven't posted recently. It was really nice, I appreciated the concern.

 

[Tanishq]

Glara, good thing is that you have realized what is self care and you are not doing everything like you used to do previous times. A positive change! :)

As for relationship, it seems it is over because you are still trying and he is doing nothing. Message once in a month doesn't help you either. Try should be from both sides and consistently this is what I believe in, not the one way as you are offering him at the moment. Thanks for checking in and sharing an update with us. Hope you are well at the moment and doing well in your life.

 

[Wastinglight]

I'm glad you checked in too. When I haven't seen you post for a while, I wonder if you are doing okay. Hang in there, it won't always feel like this. Hugs.

 

[Glara]

@Tanishq I guess I don't really have a choice. Can't be in a relationship where you don't ever see, talk to or text your partner.

 

[Tanishq]

@Glara you have a choice, you can make choices. Everyone has choice in their life. Relationship doesn't mean become tied, it's a bond which liberates you from within along with respecting your choices. Just felt like to tell you this. :)

 

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Best advise I can give.... Hang in there!

 

[BewitchedBewildered]

I know so well how this feels. I just wanted to give you some support. Keep taking care of yourself. Remember, you come first. Supporters tend to put their sufferer first. I realize now that I did. Being avoided, isolated from is extremely painful. I'm here is you ever need someone to talk to. If you accept them, <hug>.

I wish you the best. I wish you a quiet mind and an acceptance of whatever comes.