Childhood Justified Child Abuse..?

[lostforgottensoul]

I apologize if I seemed harsh or uncaring.

Oh, no, it didnt. I was just saying how our brains work many times that justifies it all.

 

[Freedomfighter]

I think a lot of child abuse (not just sexual, any really) had their abuser give them a "reason"...

As a therapist I would most likely cleanse your soul first, literally extradite the healing by removing the foul stench of persuasive grooming of a predator. This can be done by showing you how a predator operates and how a predator grooms his or her victims by using special methods of story telling. I was not aware of these methods either, but it seems to be a very common way for predators to influence and scare their victims half to death.

Your system needs to rid itself from such dirty nuances of abuse. Your system literally needs to be cleaned out and the junk needs to be thrown out, so that in the end only your mind is left, and all of the poison that your abuser left in your brain goes out with the trash.

 

[Saudade]

I think a lot of child abuse (not just sexual, any really) had their abuser give them a "reason"...

I have been through something very similar. I was sexually abused at around 8 yrs old by my uncle (who had always given me the creeps). I justified it for so long that i almost believed it didn't happen. I was told several different stories by my 'mother' about her view of what went down and i almost believed it was an accident or didnt happen or i made it up bc i though maybe i just felt sorry for myself. In those times of doubting myself and my own memories bc of outsiders perspectives i thought maybe it was my fault, as my mother had also used as one of her stories. Sometimes i would get really disgusting thoughts in my head when i was younger about my other older family members (this does not happen any more).

Sone of the hardest things for me have been.... Why me?... My family...Figuring out who to discuss my ptsd with and who i should not tell.