List 4 positive things about yourself

[Jade-]

on the other hand.......

unforgiving
damaged by things that I shouldn't have been affected by
low self esteem and high self criticism
quick to anger, especially down the well trodden paths

Well now you have to replace those negatives with positives.....no negativity allowed on this thread.....;)

 

[BloomInWinter]

Well now you have to replace those negatives with positives.....no negativity allowed on this thread.....;)

Great idea! So, Justmehere, some suggestions for you...
Great wordsmith
Compassionate
Brave
Hardworking
Honest

...and JadeBear,
Brave
Fierce
Warm
Persistent
Resilient
A brilliant light in dark places

 

[Nighthawk]

I am
A good friend once I let you in.
A giver
Thoughtful
Genuine;)

 

[BloomInWinter]

NH,

Also,
Courageous
Strong
Supportive
Emphathetic

 

[Jade-]

 

[curiouser]

Great thread Jadebear, :)

I'm very caring and loving
I'm creative
I'm brave and strong
and I'm grateful

 

[Jade-]

1.) I have a job. And I have had it over 3 yrs. I always think of it as a positive because it's the first job I've been able to keep. It's really, really hard to work because of the anxiety, but, so far, I have managed to keep going. So, maybe that qualifies me as a fighter...(?)

2.) I am unique. I am who I am....and I don't conform. I'd rather be hated for who I am than loved for who I'm not.

3.) I'm still cute.( and maybe a little conceited?)

4.) I'm pretty strong physically.

 

[externalsmile]

Genuine.
Big heart.
Fun to be around.
I am me.

 

[Sethe]

How could I have missed this thread?

1. I AM intelligent (despite what other people have said).
2. I am creative.
3. I AM 'good' (again... despite what other people have said).
4. And most importantly, I AM valuable- I am worth something. I am not worthless.

 

[shadowchaser]

Let's see. Just today.

My shaking makes me a great Margarita mixer
I am determined
I still see beauty in the world around me
I'm still alive

 

[anni]

That was really, really kind. Thank you.

 

[Deleted member 5760]

Jadebear - I know people might laugh their butts off hearing this (I'm used to that so I don't mind anymore) but I actually write hip hop lyrics often. And Beautiful by Eminem is a song I listen to often.

I actually had someone say to me once (for real - true story!?!?) - 'a white person will never make a dime from hip hop'

My response - 'tell that to Eminem''s bank manager'

(I actually don't think they were aware how STUPID their comment was - so when people say stuff like that you just don't react... you just sit back and have a giggle. If every time someone said something a bit 'duh' you reacted - well, you wouldn't get much time to relax eh :) )