Lost Love...

[Deleted member 10686]

My lover came over and told me today that we can't have sex or be intimate anymore because his wife is no longer ok with it.

I'm heart broken. I don't know how to handle it. He meant so much to me and now he is crying to me begging to let him still be in my life as friends and I just don't know if my heart can handle it... I want to slit my wrists.. And walk out in front of traffic.. But he told me if I did my son would go to my abuser, which is true... So I'm just dying inside... I feel dead.. I feel so many things.. All of them bad and miserable.. I want to die so bad it's killing me.. Love kills..

 

[Stickler]

Ah...
(((. Hugs )))

...That is a hard shift to make, lover to friend. You might need time, it's ok to insist on that. It's ok to walk away from him entirely if you need to.

...It does hurt tremendously, all of it. But there will be others.

 

[Truthful_Whispers]

If he is already married, try to feel like you have dodged a bullet, instead of feeling hurt. Because being involved in a situation like that will lead to nothing but trouble.