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Man Using Excuse Of Being A Vet To Get What He Wants

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If you give in to him once, he will think he can get away with it every time. Set reasonable boundaries.

If he is in his 50's there's a slight chance that he could have been in VietNam --and-- Iraq, but I seriously doubt it; this man seems to be just one of those people who try to get others to give him stuff he doesn't deserve


That is exactly why I was against the manager giving him his way! Now he knows that if he pushes enough that he will get his way and it makes us look like morons! :wall:


He looks to be in his 80's so its not like he's young and saying this. Either way, its completely unacceptable! I warning my co-workers about him so next time he comes in they'll know what to expect. I just wish I could yell at my manager for giving him what he wanted! Its ridiculous!

Manic
 
Wanker! I haven't heard that for years! I lived in England for 5 years and have to say that the Brits have awesome monikers for people who behave like this jerk did. There are some other choice descriptives which would be fitting for him in any language.

He is indeed a wanker! I hate to add to society's burden with another law, but surely it should be illegal to pose as a vet in order to obtain special consideration of any kind? These wankers and rotten old sods should be in jail!!

Take care,

Anni
 
I think that a lot of elderly people do u use excuses to get what they want, like pushing in line in a cue and expecting nobody to say anything because of their age. Well I'd bloody tell him to piss off! I know this might sound like a stab at older people and it's not my intention to do so, but I have found it a little unfair that they an get so much advantage over me. Here in Adelaide (I don't know about the rest of Australia), seniors can now ride the bus for free, they don't have to pay a cent. While I as a 22 year old student living alone with no employment, had to pay $4.40 per day for the bus so that I could study. PLUS, if I was studying full time for over a year I was going to have $100 cut out of my payments, only because I'm a student! So I have my money cut off and have to pay all this money for the bus when I'm trying to give myself a future, while other people get the age advatage. As I said, that's not a stabat the elderly, but I find it greatly unfair. They should be thinking about younger people's futures not just older people's pasts. If that support was given to people like me then there would be more qualified people, and I could get to where I want to go. I can't even study Vet Nursing (animal vet not war vet :P) because it's 2 years full time, or study Animal Behaviour or anything. I want to study, and I can't because I am too young to get the financial gain that older people do. It doesn't even make sense that I get paid more to sit on my ass all day than I do to get out and do something.

I'm sorry that was just a completely off topic rant, but this thread reminded me of it all, and it's something I've had to get off my chest for such a long time. I feel like I'm never going to have the future I want because the government won't help. I feel singled out because of my age, there is no problem in helping the elderly, but help people who are trying to make something of themselves too. Everyone thought I was going to be a failure because of the life I lived, and I'm starting to feel like one because I can't go to Uni or do any more study, because the qualifications I do have mean that any higher study mean losing money. Bastards. Anyway, on top of all this, tell this guy to bugger off, and if he says to you that you don't know what it's like to live with his PTSD, say he doesn't know what it's like to live with YOUR PTSD. OR say that when he comes in and gets mad it triggers your PTSD and if he knew anything about it at all he'd have the sympathy to act more civilised.
 
I would wait until he does it again. I would then make a scene. I would ask very loudly " Hey everyone! Does anyone else here think this man should be getting a special deal?" Embarrassment is a powerful tool.
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Onefineday,

Don't worry about an off topic rant! If anyone has examples or stories of this then feel free to share!
Those are definitely good ideas! I told one of my co-workers all about him because she can be a bit of a b**** to the customers if she needs to be. In other words, she knows how to fight back in a professional manner. :thumbs-up

Manic

P.S. I think its cute that there's posts right next to each other by Onefineday and onebravegirl. We could almost tell a story... Ahem. LOL Sorry. :crazy:
 
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