mom who has severe mental illness

[mshienie]

Hello, i would like to know how do you deal with a family member that becomes so toxic. I really don't like her toxicity, It bothers me a lot, and I really hate having her question into getting into my personal life, she is always so noisy with everything in my life. I have been wanting to move out and I finally have the plans to do it. How do you cope and deal with people who are toxic?

 

[Chris-duck]

How old are you?

What makes her toxic?

 

[mshienie]

62 years old, she repeats the same ocd behaviors, and when she doesn't get her way. She keeps on calling people and making people feel guilty for her sickness. that is the truth

 

[Chris-duck]

You're 62 and have never moved out?

 

[mshienie]

no i am not 62 years old. my mom is

 

[Chris-duck]

Okay, do you have PTSD?

And sounds positive that you have a plan to move out. When's that for?

 

[mshienie]

Yes I do. I already have plans for that already. It will be soon enough I got plans in May to go over there

 

[Chris-duck]

Okay. Who's got PTSD?

 

[mshienie]

Okay. Who's got PTSD?

yeah i am here on the forum so of course its me

 

[Chris-duck]

yeah i am here on the forum so of course its me

Or you could be a supporter.. but okay

 

[mshienie]

Or you could be a supporter.. but okay

I dont know what you mean by a supporter I am on here to get support from others

 

[Chris-duck]

I dont know what you mean by a supporter I am on here to get support from others

There's also supporter forums on here for like people who care about someone who has PTSD. It was unclear from your post whether you or your mum was diagnosed by a professional