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Thank you Anthony,
Yes I have spoken with My hubby about begining to try to be close again he says he is all for it but he still has issues too he cant seem to even hold me in bed I know that we are both relearning here but it makes me wonder if he will ever see me as a sexual being or if he just sees me as a rape victim. To tell the truth I am not sure how I see my self, I know I love him and we will get through this but he needs to work as hard as me i give him credit for all he has done so far but I also need more I know that now we are both learning again maybe Iam just tired and need a few days to be less exhausted and bothered.
Yes I have spoken with My hubby about begining to try to be close again he says he is all for it but he still has issues too he cant seem to even hold me in bed I know that we are both relearning here but it makes me wonder if he will ever see me as a sexual being or if he just sees me as a rape victim. To tell the truth I am not sure how I see my self, I know I love him and we will get through this but he needs to work as hard as me i give him credit for all he has done so far but I also need more I know that now we are both learning again maybe Iam just tired and need a few days to be less exhausted and bothered.
