My husband died today

[Heather]

@Medic72 Have been thinking about you all night. Am glad you are with your sister. Hang in there.

Sending hugs and prayers.

Much love,
Heather

 

[Deleted member 12723]

I am so happy to hear that you are not alone. He was your rock and this is really too much to handle and deal on your own. You are probably going to be in a surreal shock for some time. Just take it a moment at a time and remember to eat and drink water and breathe. I know that he loved you so much. It is not your fault so do not go there. Thanks so much for checking in. Very worried about you right now. I understand how busy you are with all that is going on, take a lot of naps if need be. Many hugs and prayers.

 

[Kailani]

Glad you have support. Love doesn't die and maybe you can meet him in your dreams. I meet lost loved ones there and with every shooting star. Your love for each other remains with each of you surpassing the boundaries of death.

 

[Friday]

Wishing if words could help, I knew what they were, so could give them to you. Just thinking of you Medic.

 

[Sassafras]

He committed suicide. I don't know what I'm going to do now.

I am so sorry to hear this. So stressful for you. I send you a hug. Many hugs. I hope you will be gentle with yourself and cry for a long as you need. Crying does help, I feel it cleanses. If you can try and recall your happy times. The fact that you've posted here is courageous and a healthy move. We will support you. Really.

Love Sass

 

[Flossy]

@Medic72

Oh dear. The only thing I can offer right now for you is what helped me so much when my son died. I went to a site called The Compassionate Friends and read and read and emailed when the pain was too great and I had to get it out. Eventually I found others who had similar circumstances and that helped me so much to have their support. I could email or post on the forum in the middle of the night, knowing their response would be there after I finally was able to get to sleep. Please try this. You need all the support and understanding you can get. It helped me so much.

 

[hodge]

Omg, Medic. I am so very sorry for your loss. I am glad you went to your sister's, hope you still are there if you need to be. I feel for you so much. This just breaks my heart. We are all here for you.

 

[oasis2003]

I am sorry for your loss. I really do not know what to say ... but take care and do whatever you feel. I am glad you are with your sister at such a terrible time. Much love and compassion to you.

 

[EveHarrington]

Sending positive thoughts your way.

I hope you are able to take care of yourself during this difficult time.

 

[shimmerz]

There are no words I can find for this. I can't imagine the pain. Medic, I wish you peace. I am so sorry.

 

[Deleted member 6617]

Please be kind to yourself....so very sorry for your loss.

 

[illusionist]

You keep popping into my thoughts.....hope you have the support you need.