My Mom Was Right About Secrets Being Bad...

[kdblossom]

I so wish she was alive to tell her that. I am have been running my mouth again telling BIG secrets. I have a huge problem. People tell me stuff without realizing what they are telling me. That's how I figured this one out. I passed the woman I told it to today. She was smoking, driving somewhere and she looked like she was fixing to kill someone. That's when I knew she believed me. It is something I wish she had known 25 years ago. This secret still very much impacts her family today! However, we can't change the past. If I had realized how easy it was to confirm the story I would have told her 3 years ago. I am really missing my Mom so I could tell her she was right!

 

[Britt.f7]

My aunt told me she is harboring a secret about the family that is killing her to keep inside. She wants to tell me and a cousin what it is. However I told her I do not want to know. The last secret was about my grandpa having an affair which she chose to tell us on the day he died. It caused a big upheaval in our family because I verified it with an aunt and my mom some months later. I really looked up to my grandpa. If she tells me this secret I have no one to verify it with. I'm not talking to the aunt whom I once trusted(actually she is not talking to me) and my mother is dead.

I hate secrets.

Some people would say your mom could hear you now and knows how you are feeling.

 

[Deleted member 12723]

I hate secrets. Recently I discovered that my daughter had been hiding the amount of abuse she and her girls were getting from her husband. He crossed the line and beat her about her face when she was sleeping and she ended up coming over here to spend the night. I convinced her to go to the police and press charges against the monster who had been abusing her family.

He was arrested and put in jail overnight, and he bailed himself out. She has a temporary restraining order and an attorney now.

Needless to say the night they came over it was like the floodgates opened and so much truth came out. I was so horrified.

I agree secrets are very bad. I understand and relate completely. Hugs to you.