StrwSundae uhm well I guess I put my need in the bottom of the list heheh coz I thought he is the one who needs help.
My life was fine and still really. When he told me that he got PTSD and I started to read articles about it and read many thread on this forum, I was like whoaaaa this mental illness is more complicated and confusing that I thought it would be and could not imagine that he have to live with it everyday so I just feel like I have to protect him and take care of him, I dont know why it just come naturally or maybe I have problem too but not relizing it ? haaaa
Thanks for reminding me. I know I should think what I should do best for myself.
And yea no, he didn't take my money but I did cover his expences while he stay at my house but its not much and its doesn't bother me, its ok, its passed and money can be found anyway.
I will try to find the book you told me. I like reading and so why not. I think reading that book will be more effective to how I see this. Thank you and hope the very best for your relation too.
My life was fine and still really. When he told me that he got PTSD and I started to read articles about it and read many thread on this forum, I was like whoaaaa this mental illness is more complicated and confusing that I thought it would be and could not imagine that he have to live with it everyday so I just feel like I have to protect him and take care of him, I dont know why it just come naturally or maybe I have problem too but not relizing it ? haaaa
Thanks for reminding me. I know I should think what I should do best for myself.
You are right..I like how you put it. It gave me AHA moment and I guess I wont feel evil if I leave him but I wont , I think continue it to friendship will bring good effect to him? I don't mind to help at all.It doesn't seem like he is in a place in his life to have a healthy relationship
And yea no, he didn't take my money but I did cover his expences while he stay at my house but its not much and its doesn't bother me, its ok, its passed and money can be found anyway.
I will try to find the book you told me. I like reading and so why not. I think reading that book will be more effective to how I see this. Thank you and hope the very best for your relation too.