Now what?

[anonymous]

I recently got back in touch with my main abuser - my mother. Now she wants a relationship with me but I do not.

I am still a bit confused as to why I got in touch with her. What on earth made me think that would be ok?

I need out again. I don't know how to do it.

She's very much a narcissist.

I have had thoughts of harming her and cannot act on them............................

 

[Deleted member 37474]

Every person seeks to have a loving nurturing parent. My friend asked me if she should have her abusive mom watch her 2 year old daughter for a week this summer. It was a quick "No!!!" for me on the outside. Then she realized what she was saying. It is all about that desire to be "normal" and loved. BOUNDARIES is what I always emphasize with her.

 

[EveHarrington]

Ghost her?

 

[anonymous]

Ghost her?

yeah, I think that's what I'll do, thanks.