On The Topic Of Forgiveness And Our Ability To Do So

[HëllaBubz]

When I was reading I was thinking it is like you are trying to get your hubby to continually choose you. I don't know how to do it yet, but could you also choose you? So that you don't need to get that need met by your partner so much.

Yes, very much so. I do choose me, that's why I've said no more, and put my foot down.

stating to your husband that he is not meant to invite them over until there is a proper set of boundaries around this (and they get boundaries on your behaviour too

Yeah, not going to happen on their part, so I've made it abundantly clear that we won't be seeing the in-laws or their kids again.

I'm well aware of the role model I present, so for their sake I do the right thing, and for my daughter's sake I stay the hell away, permanently.