:oops: I realize I went a little off topic, the thread was about coffee gatherings, and I rattled on about services and frustrations accessing services;)
But just wanted to add an update, for service people, there is a new program at the Royal Ottawa Hospital (Carling Ave) called the Royal Ottawa Operational Stress Injuries Program. It's mostly for Canadian Forces, possible some spaces for eligible RCMP members, and is funded by Veteran Affairs.
Things have been a bit funky and out-of-whack for me; I'm hoping in the new year to get a little more involved with the PSO and Mood Disorders group via CMHA. It could be good to get my foot-in-the-door with these groups, and maybe see about getting a group for PTSD going. It will take a bit of work to do, maybe even get a proposal going for funding and partner up with local agencies, maybe PSO as the main one. . .?
@ metis-siren, if your name indicates some of your status, there are some local programs which serve aboriginal population, that could be interesting to check out. Minwaashin Lodge: "Aboriginal Women's Support Centre" (424 Catherine St.), counselling and group stuff is available, traditional teachings. There's also Wabano (Vanier) which is a great centre from what I hear, and Odawa Native Friendship Centre as well, with individual counselling, groups and traditional teachings. I've had some light exposure to that stuff along my healing journey and have found great comfort there.
My experience has been that there's been a lack of access to PTSD support here, long waitlists (over 10 damn years for me), and if I can get well enough and more stabilized, I would like to work at some advocacy to help support the PTSD sufferers and carers. I'm on Ontario Disability atm, no excess income, nor extra health insurance, so most of what I've looked at is for low-income support
For carers, there might be some support groups via National Alliance on Mental Health (NAMI), I think there were meetings @ the ROH, not PTSD specific, but groups like Friends and Families of Schizophrenics, something like that, even though it's not a perfect fit, it can be a place to get some emotional support from handling the harder times.
For me, I get hit with agoraphobia, but I think I'm starting to recover again.
A great help-line, IME is the Mental Health Crisis Line-- that's a good support for both sufferers and carers re: any emergencies. I self-identify as PTSD, and I've found them very helpful, e.g. when I can't remember or access coping skills at those times. You can also phone them if you are concerned about another person, and get feedback and advice, and they're also great IME, post-crisis debrief (which I try to do, when I've handled something difficult out there re: another in crisis).
Any situation which gets too out of hand, they are able to dispatch the Mobile Crisis Unit-- send support workers to your residence-- and they deal with things very respectfully. I've had that option presented to me, I didn't use it, but I have used it in getting support for another, and they were great. Honestly , very respectful and supportive and follow a principle of least restrictive intervention, nothing to fear from them, IME.
Rape Crisis Line is also good, they're helpful even if it was an assault from some years back, the seem to know also how to listen and respond. Same with Sexual Assault Support Line. I've used both at times, when trying to cope with flashbacks, and they've been enormously helpful, in helping me ride the wave when it was just too much for me.
Anyway, yes it's a bit off topic, but I've been concerned with the lack of support out there, that it's been a real struggle for me, so I wanted to share these resources, so others too, don't have to hang on a thread. I just figure, might need to work at changing the system to make it more inclusive of the seemingly invisible population of PTSD sufferers and their carers. Hard to do when in the "emergency phase of recovery", if I get more energy to work on this, I will follow up on it.
We paid into the health care system with our taxes, so I'm finding it really frustrating that PTSD support seems so damn hard to get. . .I feel that we are discriminated against by our health care system, and it's wrong, IMO.