Dissociation
eating disorders & abuse of exercise
alcohol
obsessions/compulsions
workaholism and sleep deprivation
self harm
reading as escape
risk taking behaviour
self hatred
silence
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* Therapy
(for trauma, depression, breakdowns, eating disorders, dysfunctional relationships including work bullying).
CBT
DBT
mindfulness + awareness
radical acceptance
controlling empathy and understanding others
self help reading - general stuff
*self help - trauma focused, unhelpful coping focused and skill focused, workbooks
education and research of trauma and relevant mental health issues
journalling of varying types
online support
groups aimed at unhealthy coping
medication
relaxation exercises
autogenic training
NLP
Stress Release massage+acupuncture+massage+trauma focused massage
*self care of all types
*assertiveness
*grounding skills
pilates + walking and organised walks
Breathe, posture, dress
desensitisation/exposure
dream recording and analysis
correction of perfectionism
identification, understanding acceptance and expression of emotional states and development of emotion moderation skills.
boundary setting skills in general and specifically with family members
Separation from family and mother
Work on increasing self acceptance and trust of others.
work on tolerating and accepting body and the necessity of a physical self.
Successfully treating social phobia
- Do I want to change my behaviour? Yes
- Do I believe in myself, as well as others? Mostly No and no
- Am I willing to set reasonable goals and take reasonable risks? Yes
- Am I open to new ideas? Yes
- Can I accept the facts that things may not change overnight and not everything will always go my way? Yes
- Am I willing to make the effort, practice, and have patience while building my new skills? Yes
I think the willingness to try something is important actually. In a way that truly gives it the opportunity to work. Good questions Alba. I think the ones marked with a * are an essential for anyone to try to do.