As a scientist, remember, a positive correlation never indicates cause and effect.
A lot is made of these 'studies' all over the news. I've had two abortions. Really, the least of the traumatizing things in my life.
This thread is very triggering for me. The 'science' behind these stigmatizing, biased 'articles' is of little benefit to fixing the issues that create the conditions likely to result in PTSD on all sides of this issue. There are so many logical fallacies here...as if we knew the rate of PTSD in women before? As if it was even studied before? As if it was PROPERLY DIAGNOSED BEFORE? As if women were given treatment before? As if it's DUE to abortion ...instead of the PTSD from being a pregnant woman in a terribly hostile culture that labels, blames, shames you for getting an abortion or blames, shames, and labels you for being a poor &/or unsupported mother while at the same time denying access to safe, affordable birth control? This article sheds NO light on causation.
I'm grateful for people who speak out on both sides of this issue. I fault NO woman for making this difficult decision one way or the other...both can result in PTSD. I believe NO PERSON has the right to judge any woman on this issue.
I have had to deal with this issue, and it truly is not about good v. bad to me. It's a
million painful shades of grey...and blood red.
I was a child caught in a fight between the pro-life crowd vs. some really poor decision makers in charge of our school - pushing their own 'morality' agenda against unwed teachers. Suffice to say, part of it was greatly sensationalized - and included a made-for-tv movie, articles in tabloids, etc., an article in major women's magazines, and I was one of the children who ended up testifying against her in US District Court. I came out of it broken. Two of my peers who testified died within weeks of each other this summer. Just being in that issue as a child = 'adverse childhood event'. Yeah, good times.
It destroyed my family, caused me lifelong amnesia of my junior high years (until recently, lucky me), helped bankrupt my family, destroyed my high school years...We lost everything. Yet, I was one of the lucky kids - since my father was on the school board, she did far less to me than she did to others. UGH. Was going to tell this story but am getting too triggered.
I've had to deal with neglected, abused and murdered children as a paramedic. Some of my PTSD is from that. The life of an unwanted child is a PTSD $@#!! all it's own, and the paramedics, firefighters, and police officers who regularly go into these homes know just what hell on earth is.
I've had to deal with women mutilated by surgeries gone bad, reactions to birth control meds, rapes, attempts at self-abortion, women beaten by boyfriends & husbands because they became pregnant. If these women, who were unsafe to be pregnant, had the option of a safe, private, legal abortion...what PTSD might have been avoided in these lives?
I've held the hand of a teenager as her parents told her she was going to hell and they hated her - because she had a baby.
I've dealt with a pregnant teen dealing with carrying her father's baby. UGH. Can't go there either. Sheesh.
...and I've helped with the prelim autopsy of a beautiful full term baby boy murdered shortly after his death. A young woman, from a fundamentalist family, so scared & desperate that she convinced herself that she couldn't possibly be pregnant - delivered this child alone, with no assistance nor support, then wrapped him in a sheet and suffocated him. UGH...can't face the rest of this mem...see, PTSD plays into this on all levels.
I was on the trauma team that worked for hours trying to save a young woman - who committed suicide after the father of her baby completely rejected her. It was an awful, painful, bloody horrible death. Then, I had to deal with her broken father...ugh. Can't go there either.
I took a woman bleeding to death from a uterine cyst to a hospital over 1 1/2 hours away because, thanks to the pro-life agenda, none of our doctors in town that weekend had the training/skills to do the type of D & C she needed to save her. She was screaming and in terrible pain the entire trip - over Illinois roads.
Yes, when I hear that doctors are prevented from learning these life-saving procedures just because they COULD be used for abortion...well,
it's our mothers, wifes, sisters, daughters who will suffer from these skills being lost. Just how much PTSD is out there because of this?
We paramedics have the double trauma of having to try to save these women, AND listen to ignorant jerkfaces judge them for what happened to them.
I've had other patients lose their fertility, their uterus, their mental health because of this...and they wanted to be Mothers, just were unlucky enough to have complications while being pregnant in our area. Lucky for them that we're so 'moral'...the injustice of this makes me feel hopeless and like we women are just dirt beneath the feet of people making decisions that will never cost them THEIR life, THEIR wife, THEIR daughter.
Most of the worst of the judging people I see standing at 'signing ceremonies' and bashing women in public are male, white, wealthy and that's the gig...the wealthy get safe 'private' nice abortions and the poor women die. ...and we paramedics see it and have to somehow still keep our opinions to ourselves and deal with both groups. That MORE of us don't get PTSD is really amazing, I think.
This, I know for sure. Women get judged mercilessly on this issue from all sides. Where is the dialog on the million shades of grey on this issue? I feel sick when I see one side or the other use this issue to push a public policy agenda but those groups do NOTHING to support real women facing these issues.
Until
birth control is free, 100% safe and effective, and all mothers and their babies are supported so no child has to live in poverty, I support choice. If these were in place, and safe, legal, private, NON-TRAUMATIZING ABORTION was available to women, I wonder what the rates of abortion-related PTSD?
I work hard to make sure that choice is available for all women who want one. It SHOULD be safe, legal, widely available, and rare. ...AND
nobody should make it psychologically traumatizing for women, unlike what happens now.
I support them ALL...those who decide to have the baby, those who don't...and I fight for better child support, free childcare, better medical care, public option for birth control. Because I don't have any other idea how to begin healing my own PTSD without seeking justice where I believe it needs to come from. A change in how we value (& show our values!) towards our Mothers, Wives, Sisters, Daughters, Friends.