Punched The Right One

[ms spock]

I posted with intent to say that I'm proud that I stood up.

I am glad that you stood up for yourself otakujome.

 

[ms spock]

This is one of only times I fought back and used my fighting skills to my advantage.

I am glad that you protected yourself.

Can you leave this awful school?

The homeroom teacher is crazy. When the bastard attacked me with a saw, a big saw, around a meter long, and I held him so he couldn't cut me, while trying to save my own life. And after that the teacher just asked if he was fine. She didn't give a f*ck about me having a near death experience, with a big saw being swinged towards my head. I hate her, for how one sided she is. And in such an envirovment crude force turns to be amongst the only ways of defense. Argumenting something doesn't work at all and school isn't that good at handling stuff.

The school is appalling to allow this type of thing to occur. This is just disgusting otakujome!

 

[ms spock]

I think some of the discussion maybe translation issues. I understand the pride in standing up for yourself. Sounds like Otakujome has restrained himself quite a bit. As long as he doesn't desire to hurt the person or others I think it's perfectly alright to decide to longer be a victim. Don't analyze every little problem. Freud said sometimes a cigar is just a cigar maybe is a bully is just a bully who needs a broke nose.

I just worry about this bully doing more to Otakujome. He is only 14 and new to the forum. He should be being protected! This is a terrible situation to be living in. I feel very worried about you Otakujome!

 

[ms spock]

@Bill DickersonAnd darn it, there are many expressions which I can't find in english.

That makes it really hard.

 

[Deleted member 28403]

@Ms Spock
Well, just a bit more till I move to another city. For high school will be moving to a much better place.

 

[ms spock]

Gosh Little Darling One!

Just hold on! Just hold on until you can move! Post here often and talk to people!

Is your therapist helping you? Do you feel they understand?

 

[Bill Dickerson]

When your 14 it doesn't matter where or what school your in there are always jerks. A wood sword, bat, club etc. isn't the point. most people wear socks all the time and something substantial in the toe will leave bruises that will remain for awhile.

If your good with empty hand or closed hand control techniques don't hold back. Sometimes some people leave you no choice. I always told my kids don't start anything but if needed it's OK to fight to end it.

My oldest was approached by a kid much larger and was threatened with stabbing with a sharpened pencil if he didn't give up his money. My son told the kid to get lost at which time older much larger kid tried to stab him in the chest. My son who had some self defense training used a side sweep to divert the pencil and knocked the kid down with a punch to the face. The kid said he didn't want it anyway as he got up off the ground and ran off.

He didn't tell us about for about a day because he was afraid he would be in trouble. He only told us then because the pencil tore his shirt and left a scratch in the center of his chest. .......his mom had told him not fight for any reason.....

I guess it's a good thing I had told him to ignore what Mom said just don't tell her I said so. Sometimes you don't have a choice and It was a guy thing just between us. I still shudder at how close he came to getting stabbed in the heart.

 

[ms spock]

You do have to be very careful, if you are trained in martial arts.

 

[Bill Dickerson]

It is harder to take someone down without really hurting them. That's why you always see 5 LEO's trying to cuff one guy.

My dad was a LEO in the late sixties and a blackjack to your head makes you stop resisting real quick. Now days anything above the nipples can be considered lethal force.

 

[Deleted member 28403]

Thank you for support, everyone. Feeling a bit better. I am messed up right now, but at least I got 'her'. Though I have another 9 hours till I see her, which seems like plenty, due to the night being inbetween. Today at school we had a schedule making task. I found out how little I sleep. Trying to drive away my mind from dark thoughts and use the time the best. Exercises in bed.