VioletButterfly
Diamond Member
@whiteraven - I really do understand your experiences with HR. I've been there more than once in similar situations. I'm so very sorry that you're having to deal with this. Often, I have found, it comes down to us deciding if we stay or go in these scenarios. I have chosen to leave in the past because I knew that I couldn't fight with them and felt I couldn't win. You know best what your environment and experiences have been and are, so you will need to make a choice for yourself. Preparation, finding another job, etc... are probably your best route given my experience and temperment. Often, even if HR might be 50-50 amenable, we might not have the energy and wherewithal to fight. You choice, your decision. I'm sending you courage, light, and best wishes for this all to turn out for the best for you. Please take care of yourself. VB