That's one thing that makes my situation a little bit easier...I haven't gotten to the "love" stage with him. I like him a lot....but I don't love him. We've only known each other for 7 months...and several of those months we were just texting only after we initially met in person. I didn't live with him or anything like that. @tlc - that's a long time for no contact. I'm sorry but it sounds like you're in a good place over it too. Hopefully sending a note will help you two.
After I wrote what I did this morning I was thinking about ghosting versus the PTSD shut out. If PTSD weren't in the picture and someone abruptly stopped talking with me and my texts wouldn't go through which would lead me to think I got phone blocked, this would be a no brainer. It would be game over in my mind. But...because there is PTSD in play, I give him wayyyyyy more chances than I normally would.
Then I wonder if I am actually getting ghosted. I have never been blocked by anyone's phone or on FB before in my life. So this whole block thing is new to me. I don't know. I try not to attempt to mind read what possibly could be going on in his head.
After I wrote what I did this morning I was thinking about ghosting versus the PTSD shut out. If PTSD weren't in the picture and someone abruptly stopped talking with me and my texts wouldn't go through which would lead me to think I got phone blocked, this would be a no brainer. It would be game over in my mind. But...because there is PTSD in play, I give him wayyyyyy more chances than I normally would.
Then I wonder if I am actually getting ghosted. I have never been blocked by anyone's phone or on FB before in my life. So this whole block thing is new to me. I don't know. I try not to attempt to mind read what possibly could be going on in his head.
