Religion & Abuse - Raising A Child Problems

[HëllaBubz]

But understanding why people believe what they do and ultimately, what good and sometimes bad can come of it, can help you and the child develop your own system that has quite concrete boundaries of wrong and right, but isn't bowing down to anything in particular.

I love this. Sorry for the delay in replying, I've been trialling out for a new job and I'm mentally sucked dry.

I'll definitely look into this, I have a grace period before she starts asking these questions so that will hopefully give me enough time to stabilise my personal and working life so I can make time to look into this more thoroughly.

The biggest help for me is to poke around here and there and stop if I start to get panicked or symptoms start to act up. I then walk away from it and go back later. Etc

Very good self care. I do this too. Some things must be approached differently to the norm, and some things I can get back into, and others I find I just shelve indefinitely.

So if digging in, whatever the fashion, helps you face the beast, go for it, quite possible to excel at it

Exactly. I'm tired of running but I also know diving into the fray unarmoured is just unwise.