Ritual abuse

[Zupum]

It just have to have ritualist properties.

What does this mean?

 

[Oges]

Traditional understandings of abuse generally emphasize the desire of the person committing the abuse to control and dominate the victim and may also attempt to explain any potential psychological issues experienced by the abusive person.

Ritual Abuse

Otherwise, it isn't ritualist abuse but rather simply abuse. You can also google define ritual, define ristualist, etc to understand what ritualist means.

 

[Oges]

But to add to my above post, it does not have to be in a cult nor does it have to be around religon. You can be ritualist around many things.

 

[Luhugi]

There was a routine in my ritual abuse. There was an order from oldest child to youngest child all lined up straight in a row. This happened to me repeatedly. My abusive mom was never a witness to it, but she was aware of it. She stopped the abuse of me after I started my period from my abusive father. It was always the same, example if the phone rang he would stop beating on us and we would all be frozen in terror because we knew that as soon as he got off the phone, the terror would resume as if it never stopped. To this day I have a hard time listening to the phone ring. He would be smiles and sweetness and light to anyone who called to hide the ritual abuse and I think he got off on the phone calls. I hope that this helps. It seems it was always the same patterns of abuse. What started it was some trumped up charge against us children and it all ended being the same abuse over and over on many days. This went on for a very long time. Always in front of a open window.

 

[Oges]

There was a routine in my ritual abuse. There was an order from oldest child to youngest child all lined up straight in a row

That's not really ritual abuse but more child abuse. Ritual abuse generally has more to it. There are more parts to it then just the abuse itself. Brainwashing, rituals itself, psycholical control. I many just many more parts to ritual abuse.

 

[Ufov]

It doesn't have to. It just have to have ritualist properties.

I know that. I was merely stating my reality, that my ritual abuse doesn't involve a cult or religion. My father had a ritual for his kills.

 

[Ufov]

Also Jaruc.

On the GoodTherapy.org website it states that ritual abuse:
"more typically treats the victim as a means to an end."

My father's goal was my indoctrination into becoming just like him.

Brainwashing, rituals itself, psycholical control. I many just many more parts to ritual abuse.

Lots of brainwashing and psychological control...definitely.