I've never met a man who is ok with not having sex.
I've known a few. But there's a difference between someone not being okay being in a sexless relationship, or being in a companionate marriage... And having sex be the main reason why one is getting into relationships.
It's the exact same thing as most women are going to want to date a man who is either gainfully employed or has an income source... But aren't dating men primarily for their money.
And, quite frankly, the inverse holds true, as well. Most women don't want companionate marriages (at least not from day 1), nor do most men want to be the sole source of income (ditto). But individuals always differ.
Do most people want sex in their relationships? Yes.
Do most people want money in their relationships? Yes.
Does either mean that's the only reason to be in a relationship? Not for most.
Does either mean that all relationships have sex or money? Nope. Some people will place a high value on one or the other, others will place a low value on it.
Sex & Finances are only 2 components of a relationship. For some they're big important pieces. For others, middling, and others couldn't care less. That's part of the whole dating schtick. Lining up what each person values. Seeing where people are compatible, and where they're not.
