Sexual Jokes/innuendos

[Owob]

Same Owob as earlier.

I agree, it doesn't matter if I like that humour or not.
You don't. I don't have to live there, you do. That's what matters.

He wants to keep making that kind of humour at you?
To hell with him.

First rule of telling a joke. If you're the only fool laughing, it probably ain't funny. Learn a new joke.

 

[Eha]

Yes, to hell with him is exactly my feeling. I have become quite unwell over all of this nonsense from him, I cannot be around someone who causes that as I am already unwell and struggling with hugely stressful events. I will not be around someone who makes me ill.

 

[Worodu]

There is absolutely nothing wrong with not liking someone because you don't like their 'humor'. There isn't anything wrong with getting away from them either. Certainly seems healthier than staying.

 

[Imezi]

I'm stuck living with a guy right now who makes sexual comments, jokes and innuendos every day. Fortunately I'm only he...

Yep, you need to remove yourself from that dangerous situation. There are people out there that thrive on that kind of sexual harassment, pedophiles really. Married people do that crap at my work and they get off on the fact that the victim is:

1. Completely unaware of the fact that the predator is setting up make believe sessions to hurt the victim and to slander and libel the victim
2. Completely unaware that the predator is usually involved with multiple people whom he then uses to get at the victim in many different ways.

Stalkers do this weird behavior and the situation that you are in sounds very similar. Get away as far as you can from that sick dog.

I hate pedophiles, especially the ones that try to enter our PTSD forums.

 

[Aguj]

To put in context: if you lived where I live? That's sexual harassment. And it's an offence. Even if he thinks it's just shits and giggles. Doesn't matter.

So in similar situations, that's my go-to for handling those types of 'jokes'. Someone in my presence keeps making sex jokes? Very bluntly, "That's sexual harassment buddy, and it's not ok." End of discussion.

Call it what it is.

 

[Abujo]

Thank you for your above comments, I spoke to rape crisis charity regarding his behaviour, and detailed exactly what he said and done (included touching me when I didn't want him too also) they said what he was doing is an offence of sexual discrimination and is definitely sexual harassment (even with just the sexual 'jokes'. I can take it further if I want to and I probably will. There are other issues that they considered were a possible risk to others too so I think he definitely needs to be reported.

They said his behaviour is totally unacceptable and illegal and dangerous.

 

[Ujej]

Want to add that he done it again a few days ago, another disgusting comment and that he also has a short temper. Bad news.