Yes. Mercy, this is very true.DID makes is own internal sense. The witness/participant of similar events(child bride) will be the one who gets the flashbacks of those events.
I have managed to control my response to the point where I request my partner to release me if he is refusing to give up his hug. When I word it a certain way, he realises what I'm doing, and what he is doing, and releases me immediately.trigger for me is being held down.
A trigger is a symptomatic reaction from one of the five senses (sight, sound, touch, taste and smell) based only upon a direct connection to an actual traumatic event experienced.