Hmmm, up until now I didn't think there was much of a difference between sufferer/survivour. I consider myself healing therefore there is a part of me that is suffering but growing and healing, I consider myself a 'survivour' but I don't like to think of myself in terms of the abuses that happened to me. Unfortunately I am more concerned about everyone elses pain and why wasn't I there to do something than I am about my own, I carry too much of the world on my shoulders. (Still working on that, think I'm doing pretty good) but yeah. I don't know I guess I'm neither, I'm a...healing human being whose got a lot to learn, a ways to grow and.... (lost my grain* of thought :)~).