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paigelove
Anyone else notice their sufferer seems off around almost any holiday?
My combat PTSD vet invited me to a NYE wedding that got canceled due to covid. He said he still wanted to spend it with me, so we decided to go to a small get-together at a house instead. But then he bailed right before it, saying he didn't want to be on the road with drunk drivers and was also super exhausted. While I get those are valid reasons in general, he never said anything about feeling that way until right before so I wasn't fully buying what he was saying as being the sole reasons. I didn't really say much about it to him since I'm trying to be understanding of his situation, but if I'm honest, it did feel like I was getting the brush off, and it stings.
My combat PTSD vet invited me to a NYE wedding that got canceled due to covid. He said he still wanted to spend it with me, so we decided to go to a small get-together at a house instead. But then he bailed right before it, saying he didn't want to be on the road with drunk drivers and was also super exhausted. While I get those are valid reasons in general, he never said anything about feeling that way until right before so I wasn't fully buying what he was saying as being the sole reasons. I didn't really say much about it to him since I'm trying to be understanding of his situation, but if I'm honest, it did feel like I was getting the brush off, and it stings.