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[Fukogen]

Thanks. Um... almost a year

 

[Ecovo]

How much face to face time did you have before you moved to be with him?

If the answer is less than “months” (in one stretch), you jumped the gun.

 

[Fukogen]

Before you blame me, dear
He spent many holidays and weekends with my child and i

 

[Umi]

Even if he spent every single weekend for a year with you, that is less than 4 months total. That's not a lot of time. The reality of living with somebody every day is a lot different than visiting, which tends to be honeymoonish and idealized... Especially if somebody has PTSD symptoms. How much did you fight when he visited versus now?

 

[Agafe]

It’s easy peasy lemon squeezy to be perfectly fine over weekends and holidays.

You’re being very defensive.

It’s only during long continuous stretches of time that people relax, get into daily routines, and finally start to see what life with the other person will really be like.

 

[Fukogen]

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