Taunting Pushes Me Over The Edge

[aut555]

As my old therapist used to say.... "The best revenge is to do NOTHING, it pisses the other person off t...

Thank you for those words today. I needed to hear this. I was so close to picking up the phone, going into full meltdown rage and screaming l want a divorce which would have given him happiness multiplied by infinity, which would have made me extremely miserable and ruined my day. Humbly thank you.

 

[Deleted member 541]

@aut555 The more that we DON'T react, the more it pisses them off. Why???? Because they EXPECT us to react and when we don't, they can't figure it out, and then the longer we go without reacting the more they get pissed off. They may up the ante, but if you continue to NOT react, it pisses them off more. Eventually they get that you are no longer playing THEIR game..... That's when the ball is now in your court......

 

[EveHarrington]

This is the same idiot I posted about before------I haven't seen him in like a year (to my credit) but he will start to escalate and go around the blocks. I have to be strong for that.

 

[hodge]

Protective order? I know they're not more than a band-aid if that, but at least there would be something on the record if he ever tried anything.

 

[Freedomfighter]

I want to f*cking tear someone apart. I mean LITERALLY attack them. I never get like this. Unless...

It is very apparent that you have suffered from taunting and we all have to realize that the very reason anyone taunts you is to get you upset, and to drive you into actions that will make you become unstable. I had criminal justice workers that even employed those tactics.

But amazingly, once I figured out who pulled the strings, a fact that I did not know for many years, it made much more sense. And once I knew that, once I knew which predator they originated from, I realized that this very evil man had always done that to me, just did not recognize it before.

 

[EveHarrington]

Yes-----taunting will never be something I disclose as something that affects me greatly. With my luck (and all the evil people in the world) id have people pushing my buttons on purpose!