This, while an apparent simple analogy, brings an amazing clarity to how others and myself 'overreact' at times. It's not the first time you, (Third-person 'you'). stub your toe that may cause an 'acting out' but the third time you stub your toe after the dog has gotten a hold of your favorite slippers and ripped them into shreds.
As one respondent said, how do you empty or lower the level of the cups in a controlled and acceptable manner? Obviously, throwing an adult tantrum is not an acceptable procedure.
Thank-you for the analogy.
LBear