The "should Not Be Allowed To Breed List" Thread

[Jibby]

Fair one Zipper. Don't f*cking compare experiences though. Peace-keeping competition of trauma against a war trauma is like 2 ambulance men squabbling over how many RTAs they got called to. Whoosh missing the point. Let's start a thread on giving points out of 10 on how PTSD we should be, or are compared to conflicts. I never inferred intellect inferior or otherwise on anything kiddo. Your words, not mine.

Or did you miss that part you self centred egotistical bastard.

Just a rant, not an attack, right? f*ck off Zipper.

 

[Zipperhead]

Still attacking there Jibby. And you started out so nice. And as far as my words go, it was a dirrect quote there Jibby. Here, I'll post it again.

Yeah, that's what keeps them thinking like cavemen and not getting with the 21st century.

Want be to post it again, in case you missed it that time?

 

[Jibby]

I stand by what I said. To me they (the whole f*cking shebang of them) did act like cavemen. If you see the sides as civilised and 20th century in that war then crack on. And too many of those cavemen are still holding high positions in the area in to the 21st century. But that's politico debate and opinion.

You're clutching at straws now mate. I stand by what I said. Don't like it? Un-f*cking-lucky. Man up.

Words are words. Your words are a rant, mine are an attack. Being a self-centered egotistical bastard you can go f*cking wallow you c*nt. f*ck off. I'm done.

 

[Zipperhead]

Good, happy to hear that. Obviously there's nothing we can do to make you stay. So off you go, don't let the door hit you on the way out, you panty waste.

 

[Jimmy1]

I am pretty sure I have supported you since you joined the site. I only ever tried to offer you advice as a friend.

You tarred all Serbs with the same brush you tosser, therefore, you insulted my friends. Their culture is their culture, you can't change that. If you have an opinion as nasty as that, keep it to yourself.

And my made up friend is a Major in the Australian Army you wanker, and you can look up his brother who is a comedian down under. What am I explaining to you for anyway. Your no longer here.

 

[Jibby]

You have supported me alot Jimmy and I thank you, but re-read what I said and when I said what I said I was saying.....

.....Was making the point that there's the stereotype thinking. As in all think Serbs were bad, Croat Ok and Bosnian Muslim the victim. I don't think that......

You're right about one thing Jimmy. In my head and all your's I'm no longer here. This is not for me.

Take care, and I mean that to all. Keep fighting, without fire in our bellies we're done.

 

[Ned]

You're right about one thing Jimmy. In my head and all your's I'm no longer here. This is not for me.

First damm thing you've said that I agree with. Jibby, most people on this site are getting poked with a sharp stick every day of their every-day life. Including you, obviously.
No-one needs it here. Leave your weapons at the door. And try engaging brain before opening gob.

 

[Wagon]

As a person who has not seen the forest for the trees for much of his life, I can say it's a damn big forest and I'm pretty resigned to never get out of the woods so to speak and I don't think I'd have it any other way.

Having said that, I apologize for my comments. Just kind of added fuel to the fire. However Jibby, you do realize that the written word is far different from the spoken. You can't see facial expressions or hand gestures. Emoticons are poor substitutes...might as well send semaphore. So whatever you meant....it was taken for face value. And it pissed people off. It also looked insensitive to one of our friends.

War is war. Don't care what they call it. If it was really so different there would be a Peace Keeping PTSD site and a Contingency Operations PTSD site along with the ex Military Adviser PTSD forum.

What was it that my man Fargo said. "Hate the game, not the player" Damn good advice right there.

Peace
Wagon

 

[Jibby]

As a more rational post I hope from me (and this I promise is the last one from me here), I hear you all. And I don't want to leave it as a last message on the bile up above I said.

You don't need to apologise about anything imho Wagon, you always make intelligent points here from what I see. At risk of sounding like a naff break up line; the problem's me not you. I have to live with that, you guys don't and shouldn't. And won't anymore.

I hear you on written word not always coming across as it's meant without seeing the whites of eyes or body language for connotations etc. If I am on one and see what I percieve a slight to something (in my mind said or meant differing to being told this or that is recieved) then I will always bite back too irrationally aggressively for my own good. At risk of sounding like a naff break up line.....yeah.

Getting in to a bitch fest with Zipper is pointless. He said/you said/I said etc. Everybody loses.

We all have mates from different nationalities or ethnicities and if anything I said was taken as attack on any persons you might know under a nationality label then sorry. I didn't mean it like that. We all have demons and bogeymen and all three sides in that farking place changed forever my faith in all humans or humanity; Brit as well. If the Bosnians can do what I saw to each other, we all can.

If any of you can hand on heart say that you hear the word "vietnamese", "afghan", "arab" or "irish" or wherever your demons were born and it doesn't conjure up something deep down then I envy you. My demons are born in the Bosnian war, so it messes my perceptions straight off. It does not mean your mate from the region is anything bad to me; we're all humans, not our character linked in to a nationality. I met a lot of very very impressive Bosnians as well. A hell of a lot.

Back in the day working with a lot of equally irrationally aggressive idiots like me these things got sorted by going round the back and somebody getting banged out then it's forgotten, moved on with whats pissed you off and back for tea and scones. I liked it that way. That doesn't work in civvy street and it definitely doesn't work online. Maybe I was a caveman in a past life and just found p for plenty like-minded in the Corps, but I will always give an opinion, say what I see and find it hard to back off if somebody challenges it (or I percieve they are). Again that's my problem not yours.

I can only apologise to you all, but nothing excuses saying sorry for the same thing twice+ and not changing. It won't happen again because I'm offski. You have a great resource here as a collective, but as said it's not for me and I'm not for you. No hard feelings this end at all. Done, dusted and forgotten.

Take care all and best of luck in the journey that is life for the future. All of you. I hope we can all find peace one day.

...and I will try to close the door quietly on my way out without it banging me in the arse. :D

 

[Wagon]

I have to live with that, you guys don't and shouldn't. And won't anymore.

We all live with it Jibby. It's called the BEAST. And this was a mild kerfuffle. There has been worse. And those people never apologized.

Water under the bridge.....Wonder if I should start a new Bar thread? :whistle:

 

[Jimmy1]

Your always welcome Jibby, Anger is a part of the beast but not an excuse.

I very rarely outburst on the forum. A good way around it is to stop what your doing when you feel it coming on or someone pisses you off.

That is the great thing about this forum, you can actually edit your response for up to 15 or more minutes. So you can actually rescind your nasty comments.

So when the beast digs it claws in, 'Step away from the Keyboard'

 

[Zipperhead]

No one has reported you, so I don't see that this is any differant than a shovel behind the Call Sign. Words said, and life goes on. You are not the only one that didn't walk away.