Tired Of Working Here, Frustrated With My Boss

[youngoddess]

Practice saying things to your boss in the mirror and when you need to go and speak to her imagine you are wrapped in a protective bubble and imagine her very small. If she has to bully people then psychologically she is very small. You are much stronger.

Hello Belle, thank you so much for your words. I saw the student again, the one whom I put the report, it was signed by his mom, and I think she talked to him because his attitude got much better, he was very respectful and his tone of voive got much better. He didn't look upset anymore. I dno't know why he was acting that way, but it seems it's good now. The times I asked he always said: nothing, everything is fine. Maybe he didn't want to tell me or he was upset with me for something I said. But the reported helped for his mom to knew it, it was for 'eating in class' and 'being disrespectful to the teacher'. And today he was very hhappy, I was for him ,too.

And about my principal, I told her, it took me 10 seconds I think. In the weekend I was thinking what I should tell, and I started practicing what to tell her and how to stand and what to say and how to say it. I practice in the mirror, and I reread what you said. So, on Monday I said, ok, I practiced, it's fine, I'm not going to keep thinking about it because my anxiety is going to get huge. Today I was very happy because I saw 'closer' the fact that I was going to see my little niece and I think it also helped, so I told my principal what I had to say, and I left the room. I was very cold like I think I didn't even smile, but I wasn't rude, I think I was very formal. I have problems with that, like I have problems talking professionaly. But in the end, everything worked. This little things caused me a lot of trouble but when I finally can do it right, I feel very good because I know my anxiety is not something small. Thank you so much for all your help and your encouragement, I really appreciate it.

 

[Tanishq]

Well the chairman is also a nun, and for what I've seen there, they are very close, I don't think they would take this seriosuly.

Hi youngoddess. that's good to hear your situation has improved with that student and you're planning to manage everything. :tup:

Hope you have a good day there & you're welcome. :)

 

[Belle]

You are welcome :)