But it does mean making informed choices as to who is good for you and who isn't.
Yup. And honestly, once you've made that choice, and made the leap, their shit doesn't affect you ANYWHERE near as much, because you know that you don't have to deal with the wankers anymore!:playful:
the two of you can move on. Once you move on, the problem(s) becomes wholly theirs. You are free!
FREE! Ah, honestly, it's hard to pull me down now that I've finally stood up for myself, I don't get as anxious or triggered anywhere near as easily now that I'm starting to learn some basic boundaries.:smug::singing:
Best of wishes for the little one soon to be here.
Why thank you Barberian! I'm sure she's going to be a mischievous handful like her mummy!:devilish:
"grossly" oblivious and insensitive
Thank you! I can't tell you how glad I was to hear you say that! As my T fairly pointed out today, my caterer would have felt pretty ambushed after my mother dropped that shit on her, but honestly, doesn't professionalism come before getting involved in a work subordinate's personal bullshit?:confused:
*I* wasn't the one that crossed that boundary, my mother was......me knows better! :rolleyes:
But despite all this, you have the best partner in the world.
Ah yes. Yes I most certainly do. As he pointed out when I felt the need to get a few things off my chest about the topic, he handled all the other shit to my satisfaction, in his own words and without me putting words in his mouth, so I should trust him to handle it again. I did, and he did!
:D:inlove::inlove::happy:
